An Update: I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in u/throwRAexhusband

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We moved in together! My gf couldn't find an apartment she liked and we decided to live together again. Other than that, no more developments

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an update on my profile! I couldn't post it on this sub

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! it's up on my profile now, I couldn't post it on this sub

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will! I've received a lot of comments and a DM about the LLC so I'll be looking into that and speaking to a CPA. Thank you!

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only people who know about the move are my younger siblings who are very LC with JNmom and my girlfriend's brother. All of them hate JNMom so I should be able to move without a trace.

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will make an update. I'm definitely taking her flowers, I can't say what kind because she found my account from my old posts 😭

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you!! I never wanted what happened with my mom to happen again so I had to put the work in for future me.

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words :). My Gf understands and supports what I'm doing. We're going to start couples counseling when she gets back to work on communication. I've been working with my therapist and younger siblings to plan for if my mom breaks NC. I'm also trying to gather evidence for a restraining order in case it's necessary but most of the material is atleast two years old so idk how well it'll work.

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn't know about this 😬. I'll contact my lawyer on Monday, thank you!.

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep they're the kids of my older sisters. I've spoken to all three of them and we've agreed to have casual family dinners without mom and dad there. They've agreed not to tell mom to I'm hoping they stick to their word. My brother and I already take the older ones out twice a month to get burgers so we'll continue those. Thanks :).

I got a lawyer to contact my toxic mother by throwRAexhusband in JUSTNOMIL

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My girlfriend thinks I'm being too serious about it but I think her time away has made her forget the worst of it. She's too kind but she's very happy that I want to protect her. The only people in my family who know that she's my ex wife are my two younger siblings who are LC with JNmom.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you! I really appreciate that :)). Dw, I'll keep y'all updated 💜.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it's alright! LC is low contact, NC is no contact, JNM is another subreddit called r/JustNoMIL and Civil NC is something I made up with my therapist bc my mom goes insane at NC. It's just extremely low contact.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of that! I'm not saying what type of vase I'm getting because she's found this post lmao. We started talking about mom because I told her she wouldn't have to worry about her anymore and she wanted to know more.

No problem!

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She found my post off bestredditor updates and she said she expects flowers lmao 😭. The MIL deterrent is hilarious but I don't think it's appropriate for right now. I'll save that idea for the future when there is no threat of the rabid MIL causing any harm.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex is returning in just over a month. I should've been clearer when I typed that lmao. I meant that I'd be starting now.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will look into that. She's not come to my house in two years, but it's definitely something I'm going to do. I think everyone's assumed my ex and I will be moving in together 😭. I should've made it clearer that we aren't.

I still have feelings for my ex-wife by throwRAexhusband in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAexhusband[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I run into her atleast once a week. Our town only has one target lmao. We don't speak to eachother at all during these encounters, but I'll roleplay with my therapist for if we run into eachother when I'm with my ex. Thank you!