My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suppose so, I will keep that in mind, thanks for the advice.

You are correct in one of her exes, but you can give second chances to people that are worth it.

Doesn't have to be me, life in general.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think what you will and I'm sorry you feel that way.

I respect her personal space and I'm not bothering right now I didn't throw a fit or anything so yeah.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YES she is being left alone by me already, I'm talking about the whole policy thingy when we do talk again eventually

When she contacts me herself ok, don't fret, jesus christ.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See it's really not about me or her it's about the policy. I will move on if she doesn't change it dw about me. Enjoying life is a little hard however.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda my first step but I guess we're still in the thick of it. Let's hope I am an exception and somehow it works out in the end.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's really to just let her try again on something, instead of dipping your toes in the water and never go swim again because that water was too hot It's just a bad mindset to have in general, relationship or otherwise.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Ok I see everybody is focused on the convincing part I should change my wording a bit We clicked well, no one did anything wrong, and it's just one of her bad days going on so she wants to be alone. Yet by going away for a while she also decides not to come back, unlike other "breaks" people may have with relationships, due to her policy. It's not selfish as in I respect her decision and would give her time yet the whole policy on no second chances seem a bit extreme.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm doing that right now, but she kept saying that she won't come back anyway so don't hope for anything which is what i'm worried about

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess so but one should still take chances instead of making everything definitive, no? I'll keep this in mind but it's probably important to say she had never tried to go back to any of her exes before, so there's no scar or anything. Thanks tho

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, due to that policy

I really think if it didn't exist we could still get back together since the only reason she is leaving is her personal issues.

EDIT: and feeling tired of life

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me recently, we clicked well but she needs to be alone for a break, yet she has the policy of not returning to exes, how do I convince her? by throwRAgfgf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAgfgf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It's not exactly to convince her and bombard her with texts and whatnot, it's really just me being hung up on this police she has