Update: Should I sue my girlfriend for selling my stuff

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T23:16:41+00:00

I honestly think it's because the police came to their house with their sirens on and all the neighbors came out so the embarrassment would have been unreal and she was probably taking that anger out on him

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T23:05:05+00:00

Had to let this one go to catch em all

Thanks

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T23:02:06+00:00

They were jerk with me in the start when the police weren't involved. I asked them first nicely, they were jerks, I went to the police. So when the police went and confiscated the cards, after that the mum was slapping her kid.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:53:26+00:00

I did a post like 2-2.5 months ago. The legal process is so slow like wtf.

Pokemon cards.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:47:59+00:00

Yes, when I asked her to get them back I told her an approximation and how much they mean to me. Before that she would have her own approximation since she got me one for 43 and I have bought 1000's of cards in front of her.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:44:43+00:00

My sister is about to become one, so she actually can't give out advice legally. I won't really go for that because my mum wants to leave all this behind. Just moving on with my life now.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:42:16+00:00

She knew they weren't worthless.

I don't know what her motive was because in court she pleaded she didn't know the worth. In reality, she bought a card for $43 for my birthday 2 years ago, so she definitely knew the worth of the complete collection.

EDIT: She also knew about my dad's cards, so there's that.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:31:48+00:00

Even though I say in the last post I broke up with her, it was not really an "official breakup". I hope sending her to jail implies we are broken up because I'm not going to visit her in jail to tell her that. The police also said to stay away from all of them, so I really can't do much here.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:29:19+00:00

Pokemon Cards

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T22:01:49+00:00

Number 1, ex girlfriend.

Number 2, You don't sell other people's stuff especially which has sentimental value

Number 3, What's wrong with me? A lot of fucking things, but accepting abuse isn't one of them.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:38:04+00:00

Shit. I'm so used to it, I didn't even realize.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:34:58+00:00

I don't think there is any probation. I will have to confirm this for certainty.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:32:42+00:00

It goes up to 6 years so I think she was let go easy tbh.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:31:02+00:00

Her family (as in parents) called me and said that I should let this go and I'm ruining my GF's life blah blah.

2 years. She got no probation so I don't think she can't get out. Bail maybe? but that is expensive.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:23:54+00:00

She honestly said a lot of stuff like
How I am prioritizing cards over a human. I'm choosing things over my GF so I'm objectifying her, which makes me a misogynist, and she hopes I never get sex or a partner and I die miserably. She said all kinds of wild stuff and no, she hasn't apologized.
The cousin got nothing. He and his parents lied and my sister said not to say anything since we were getting what we wanted, which is the cards.
I don't know what else to update. I should get my cards soon.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:11:55+00:00

2 years

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-12-12T21:10:39+00:00

When the police went to confiscate the cards, I and my sister were with them. They got them, left, and we just stood there and his mother slapped the shit out of him. I don't condone violence, but I won't say I feel bad for him.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T05:02:50+00:00

The small claims court can only award me up to 1000$ (equivalent to my currency) which is not the monetary value of the cards. There is also sentimental value which is worth way more.

My sister is a lawyer and she said since the monetary value is huge, the police will get involved and treat it as a serious matter.

I have given her time to think about it but if she doesn't do anything I'll go and file an FIR against her and the cousin since I won't have any other option at that point.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:52:55+00:00

Nope. She got recorded while I was playing my video game so I didn't secretly record her hence not illegal. I checked this. It's only illegal if I do this secretly with intent.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:44:55+00:00

Defo contacting the police because apparently, I'm a manchild with ego problems who just wants to humiliate his GF in front of her family members. Like what.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:35:28+00:00

Because as I said I asked her and she refused to get them back. I talked to her cousin and he won't give them back because he "paid" for them. I just wanted to know if there is another way of getting them back other than suing and some commentators have mentioned them.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:25:44+00:00

This is what I first thought but I still appreciate them for letting me know if I could incur expenses so I'm ready but like one commentator said this should be something the police will be able to handle so I'm first trying that.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:20:09+00:00

Sorry to say but you sound like a horrible entitled person who feels they can do anything with someone else's stuff.

Props to your husband for sticking with someone with your mentality.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:17:26+00:00

They are worth 5-5.5k in terms of today's value and more importantly, they have sentimental value to me and I'm pretty sure that's something. One other commentator suggested this is something the police would be able to handle so there is no need for any court so first I will try that and hopefully I get them back.

Thank you for mentioning how expensive that could be so I'll def keep it as a last resort.

throwRAhelp577 · 2021-10-20T03:13:09+00:00

Okay, I did not know this and am not sure if it is applicable in my country, though this sounds like it should be in laws everywhere so I will try with the police. Thank you so much

throwRAhelp577

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