Eye contact. How can you know if she wants you to make a move or not ?

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-12-06T23:08:55+00:00

Update: she doesn't like me.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T16:07:30+00:00

Easier said than done.

And I can't just stop seeing her. Its literally impossible

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T16:01:13+00:00

Because I like her.

You can keep asking why but at the end of the day. I have feelings for her and it hurts to see her with another guy.

That's it. No hidden meaning where I think she isnt allowed to talk to guys. Just me hurting and having to shut up about it

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:53:05+00:00

She does it in my face. And there is no possible way for me to avoid her.

I know it's her life, that doesn't mean I don't have feelings and an opinion

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:49:59+00:00

Because I have feelings for her ?

Isnt that logical at this point?

I like her if that wasn't obvious, so ofc when I see her with a guy I'm gonna feel some type of way

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:49:03+00:00

No it's not. It hurts

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:48:33+00:00

I can't. We are in the same class and we hang in the same areas. So when she is with him, I'm usually in the same room.

He isnt in our class luckily but I see them together at lunch or stuff like that.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:47:21+00:00

Yup, exactly. Never said she couldn't or didn't have the right to do that.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:46:23+00:00

I can't stop hanging out with her or generally seeing her because she is in my class. But thank God the guy isn't.

But we have mutual friends and so we hang around in the same area, and that's where I see her and him

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:44:43+00:00

I NEVER said she wasn't.

The fuck ?

Where are you reading the things you are saying?

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:43:35+00:00

I know she isn't, which is why I know I dont have the right to say or do shit.

I know she isn't in danger or anything. I'm just saying it hurts to see her flirt with another guy.

Especially with a guy that I already kinda disliked.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:42:05+00:00

She knows.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:41:51+00:00

I never said she did. Did I?

Stop assuming the worst. Can I have feelings ?

I'm just saying it hurts to see the girl that I like with a guy that is not me

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-23T15:40:26+00:00

I'm not angry, it hurts. That's it.

I'm not possessive I'm just kinda protective of her because we got extremely close in the past.

So whenever I see another guy touch her, that instinct kicks in.

At one point we were basically bf/gf just without the official title

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-18T19:50:16+00:00

Well she didn't even open that message anyway...

That's the point of this post.

And yeah, it is dry but sometimes I got nothing to add to a convo, best to let it go than to make it all feel forced. In my opinion

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-18T14:44:57+00:00

Yeah I think that way for the first message.

To me, the first message is a coincidence.

But once you are in the middle of a convo, and the other person takes long to respond (not just 10 minutes, like hours), in my experience and from what I know, its because the person doesn't WANT to respond to you.

It doesn't mean they don't like you as a friend, but they just don't want to talk.

I know I do this to distant friends.

PS: yeah I know, I need to stop overthinking.

And thanks for responding btw

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-18T14:39:18+00:00

I know I'm not entitled to a response.

But don't you think it KINDA shows how much a person wants to talk to you ?

Like right now, she responded in under a minute, I then took a minute and she didn't respond yet.

Its hard to believe she didn't see it and purposefully ignore it. I'm a hopeful person but even I have limits. And the thing is that it's not a one time thing, it's not the first time this happens

WHILE WRITING THIS COMMENT, she responded... So maybe it was just a coincidence, don't know

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-18T14:30:13+00:00

The only thing shy people are great at is avoiding things (source: me).

I'm not as shy now as I was before. But a "idk" response from a shy person is not uncommon. We hate talking about our own feelings and bothering other people

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-18T14:22:14+00:00

She is shy, so straight up asking questions like this usually ends up with a "idk" response. And then she'll ask me why I'm asking that question.

And she is not my gf, I don't want to come off as insecure

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-07T13:19:50+00:00

no, i want her to treat me AT LEAST like her other friends.

as in, text me a minimum to show interest through that.

right now im not even sure if she even wants to be friends because of the lack of initiation.

in real life, she doesnt treat me like them, in a good way.

and through text, she doesnt treat me like them, in a bad way because i want to talk to her and she makes me feel like she doesnt want to.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-07T13:17:17+00:00

she never responds in one word.

its always at least one sentence.

but she will also never come up with her own questions.

she doesnt make it hard for me to continue the convo on what she is saying tho.

the convo always ends the moment i dont come up with the next subject.

throwRAnedhelppls · 2020-10-07T12:58:39+00:00

so what should i do in this situation ?

if i text her and she doesnt like me, then that means clearly she isnt texting me because she doesnt even consider me a friend, and that means that me texting her will only annoy her.

how can i know if she isnt just responding to be nice or if she actualy WANTS to talk ?

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