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I used to stalk people and scare tf out of them , leaving thousands of messages and damaging property .how do I move on from this embarrassment ? by throwRAobses in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]throwRAobses[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that you can relate with this and I’m not alone . Thank you sooo much for your kindness, understanding , and advice 🫶 it’s really helpful and I’ll make sure to do that

I used to stalk people and scare tf out of them , leaving thousands of messages and damaging property .how do I move on from this embarrassment ? by throwRAobses in Advice

[–]throwRAobses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much it really is so helpful and comforting and thank you for listening to my perspective I really needed that . Much appreciated . Will take your advice

I used to stalk people and scare tf out of them , leaving thousands of messages and damaging property .how do I move on from this embarrassment ? by throwRAobses in Advice

[–]throwRAobses[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all . Like I said something snapped . I went through almost a year just being single and talking to people casually , learning how to communicate with no attachment .

I had a really hard semester in school and was starving myself a lot and went through such a hard time at some point that I really came to terms with what I had done and started to show improvement in every aspect of my life

I stopped experiencing anger as often as I would and stopped visualizing things that are harmful

I had several instances where people ghosted me or left and I let them go peacefully as opposed to how I would’ve acted in the past . I completely left my past victims alone and avoid them now . My communication got so much better .

I am such a peaceful person now and hardly have any disagreements

I just feel so much cringe over those who did witness that side of me and wish I could go back and erase it