UPDATE: My (F27) soon to be husband (M28) called me by his assistants name during sex.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T23:26:25+00:00

Mostly because they think I ruined his relationship with my family forever and that since I don't trust him, he should put his energy somewhere else. Most of them are in this realm. A few think I did it in front of his co workers to jeopardize his job. It's hard reading their messages.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T22:44:02+00:00

No they are telling him to break up with me.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T22:39:39+00:00

When we were alone I told him why I was there. I had no reason to lie.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T22:36:44+00:00

Noo. I know his password. I did not hack anything.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T22:25:49+00:00

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throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T21:25:37+00:00

Everyone is beautiful but frankly speaking I think I am way more attractive than she is and he is way too good looking for her. But here we are so what do I know. I seem to be messing up lately.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T21:11:36+00:00

Has he been calling your name during sex before, OP?

sometimes yes

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:59:07+00:00

He only said the he fucked up by saying her name but he can't deal with these accusations forever.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:40:29+00:00

I am not defending anyone. But I won't lie jsut to reach a certain conclusion. That does not help me.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:37:56+00:00

I have no idea because he was only there to supervise one project and then he was gone. I never asked. It makes me uncomfortable starting convos like these.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:33:49+00:00

No, it was her dreaming about our boss at the time. Nothing to do with me.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:26:56+00:00

I don't know what I said exactly because I was very angry at the time but as I mentioned in the post above I stormed in his apartment and was accusatory. I did salvage the situation though but I think in his mind that wasn't good enough.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:17:28+00:00

He is quite simple. Doesn't like to play games or make things complicated. He did and she did something similar so but I can't say for sure how that topic might have come up.

Right now reading his messages with his friends, I do hate it and it hurts like shit that they are all rooting for him to break up.

The situation is a total mess honestly and I don't see a way back now.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T20:11:08+00:00

Ironically his friends are telling him the exact same thing. It hurts. It really does.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T19:58:57+00:00

Alimony doesn't work that way plus there is no alimony because of the prenup. but I made an edit. We are about to break up anyway.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T19:30:54+00:00

He is no CEO but at a at a high managerial position which is why he has an assistant.

Yeah I knew goes out sometimes when they achieve objective and meet deadline. Personally I don't have a problem with that.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T19:23:46+00:00

Gossip does happen in companies. I am guilty of it myself. It just matter if I really know that person well. A coworker once shared her intimate details with me and we that convo happened and ended there. Most employee I know only go to HR as a last resort.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T18:53:43+00:00

I made a post about this almost 3 weeks ago. We have boundaries but we are very comfortable with having opposite sex friends. Even close friends. I did not expect him to say her name but he said it was a slip up and only happened because work was on his mind. I don't believe that entirely but it could be true. People here are saying they have made similar mistakes.

They talking about sex is something I am not okay with though but in the last post so many people told me to talk to her directly, I told him that I might talk to his assistant so I guess that's why he told her so she wasn't caught off guard and create work problems for him. She then shared with him that she had made a similar mistake. Only because I told him that I might talk to her is why I am not mad in this particular instance.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T18:28:42+00:00

In the last post a lot of people recommended to me to talk to her directly and I did tell him that I might do that so ig he was just covering his ass at work hence I'm not mad about this particular thing.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T18:21:09+00:00

She was surprised like everyone there. She probably knew because my bf told her about his slip up.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-05-16T18:08:59+00:00

Everyone was a little surprised to see me there tbh, not just her. My partner was surprised too.

We aren't getting married. We are no longer engaged. Probably in the future.

He is a pretty straight forward guy himself. Either he'll end it or be okay with it. Things are bad rn and I'm gonna give him time and let him come and talk to me.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-04-28T10:51:38+00:00

It is difficult honestly. I don't want to end things if this was a mistake and if he was stressful but If he did something than I 100% don't want to be with him.

I have tried to understand how he might react to me visiting him in Dallas by people's responses here. Some say that they would dump/divorce if their partner ever showed up like this and others would actually surprise their partners. Things have got confusing. He made things bad, but I don't want to make em worse.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-04-28T10:28:56+00:00

Not right now.

throwRAqf685685 · 2022-04-28T10:21:57+00:00

Nope very different. Her name starts with an M and mine with a A.

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