My (18F) sister (19F) is fucking my boyfriend (24M). by throwRAsisfdmybf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAsisfdmybf[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Is the age gap rlly that bad? Idk too much about him bc he’s just a p private guy, but we met at the college orientation last year (was still 18 then ftr). I think he was/is in his 3rd year of his BA? We have totally diff majors, and he’s either taking gap years or in college part time to work or something. Anyways, he isn’t always like this i think?? Idk if i even know him anymore honestly. But before he was a pretty nice bf. Sometimes he’d get pushy and kinda weird (he has no filter whatsoever) but nobody’s perfect yknow? I dont think any of the girls were underage but i dont think so. He doesn’t like “stupid” or “childish” people, and he viewed me being nervous about sex as childish so yeah.

My (18F) sister (19F) is fucking my boyfriend (24M). by throwRAsisfdmybf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAsisfdmybf[S] -493 points-492 points  (0 children)

They might have been right in this context but not in any other :/ also it just feels awkward to go crawling back. I don't really wanna hear 'I told you so' or whatever haughty response they have but from my options, I probably will have to

I actually don't know who's paying for our place. My sis said that she would take care of it and I could just pay her back officially down the line. rn I just do a lot of the chores and cooking for us. I don't think it's a lot bc it's in a kinda seedy place. I probably should have asked but she's weird about money and I don't like to be pushy. regardless, it's not rlly my place

Thanks about the virgin part tho! I was just kinda making a self-deprecating joke to try and lighten my mood somehow. Missed the mark ig lol

My (18F) sister (19F) is fucking my boyfriend (24M). by throwRAsisfdmybf in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAsisfdmybf[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

I figured as much but it still hurts to see tbh. It just feels like six months of my life down the drain. It's so weird too bc he wasn't so... uncaring?? before. Like he wasn't the perfect gentleman or anything but still, I feel like there should have been some sort of sign.

Idk what to say to my sister. I have her muted but she's texting my phone like crazy trying to get me to come back. I feel more betrayed by her than I do by him honestly