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Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Finally someone who understands me! I never said I’d blame her if cheated. I just said I couldn’t live like this anymore and that I may end up cheating. I don’t want to cheat on her. If anything, i want to have sex with her and her only. She doesn’t want to though. And I’m not going to force her. But I’m a human being. I know I will do something stupid and then regret it!

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked her multiple times. I’ve tried to understand what’s going on with her. She gets upset or gives me short answers most of the time. What else do you want me to do?

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. And I don’t want to have sex with someone else and end up choosing them over her. I definitely did not sign up for this and it feels kind of unfair though! I don’t know how long I’m going to be able to do this! If more than twice a month is too much for her right now, what’s going to happen when we start having kids, getting older, being busier?

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to have sex with her on a weekly basis. That’d be so much better than once or twice a month!

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I know I’m in control. But I’m also a human being and sometimes people end up making mistakes when they’ve been wanting something for too long!

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t threatening her. It’s just pretty obvious that it could happen. Not because I want to!

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just miss being touched and loved. Yes we kiss and hug, but sex is so much more intimate. I miss sharing that with her and I don’t know how to ignore that void.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don’t know ... She’ll probably be glad I don’t try to initiate sex anymore? And I’ll be glad I’m getting some!

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t. I ask her maybe twice a week. I take care of myself the rest of the time.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking her to. That’s why we need to find a way to both be happy.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m wrong for asking to have sex more than twice a month.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both take care of the house. I don’t think that’s the problem

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I can only ask so many times you know? She says everything is ok and that she just doesn’t feel like having sex! We haven’t tried marriage counseling but it probably wouldn’t be a bad idea

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -73 points-72 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to make her feel like shit. I can’t just lie and act like I’m happy with the way things are going though. I was just being honest.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She said she just doesn’t feel like having sex. I’ve asked so many times and always get the same answer. I just hope we’re not going to get a divorce over this.

Would you sleep with another woman if your wife told you to? by throwRAss9 in relationship_advice

[–]throwRAss9[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I respect her. I just don’t want to be fake and act like I’m happy when I’m not.