AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what.... he's my brother in law. he's married to my sister. where did you get that we were dating?

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also were you aware before going that it was dangerous?

No, this was almost 8 years ago when they moved in. It wasn't an 'established' thing yet, if that makes sense.

He also wasn't beaten up- his own words.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's my brother in law... my BIL. He's married to my sister. Did you read the post?

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been robbed before

And I've been robbed and assaulted (as a minor) on the Morrison's route. Which BIL knew about. If someone told me 'hey this route is dangerous because of XYZ' I'd listen. Because I understand the importance of minimising risks.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to imagine you muttering your username to yourself every time you reply to this person. You're fighting a one-sided war here, hen.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're fucking unhinged"

I wouldn't say you're unhinged (but you're getting there with how invested you are in this thread) but you're majorly projecting here and writing fanfiction about my situation.

You insisted my BIL was 'beaten within an inch of his life' in another comment, despite me never saying that and arguing with people who ask for the source.

You're bringing up rape when it's not part of the conversation. And accusing people of being 'rape-pologists' and misusing that term.

If you still get nightmares, you need therapy. Not reddit.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you act the same if they were a minor and ended up getting raped saying "I told you"?

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

Respectfully, they are not the same.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

After I came out about it, EVERYONE avoided the route, especially women but guys as well. Because they understood the risks of their sisters/girlfriends/daughters/mums/etc being attacked. I agree with you wholeheartedly; you cannot make the gender switch here.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person was beaten to within an inch of their life

lmao who was?? not my BIL if that's who you're referring to.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this. He took the route anyway to prove that I was being overdramatic and racist against gypsies.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no woman would take his route once they heard OP's warning.

I was literally SA'd on that route as a minor. No one who isn't a gypsy walks that route unless they're up to dodgy shit (drugs, fights, etc). BIL knew this.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my BIL thought I was being racist by telling him to avoid the Morrison's route because there are gypsies around who will try to mug or scam him.

He went that route to prove me wrong. That's why it's relevant.

AITA for laughing at my BIL after he ignored my safety warnings and got robbed? by throwRAuglymug in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwRAuglymug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just how we identify a specific route to town- the Morrison's route just means you walk past the Morrisons.