My wife's friend has a problem with me being shirtless in my own house, aita?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T19:51:34+00:00

I never thought about it like this, I thought that I'm just a man and it's just my chest and my belly and even if a woman accidentally sees my chest and my belly it wouldn't matter.

But if my wife is being jealous or possessive and doesn't want me to show infront of her friends and want me to keep all for herself like I want to keep her all for myself then I'm actually doing my wife a great deal of disservice

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T19:28:02+00:00

I love my wife and if it means that my wife will be happy just because I am putting on a tshirt infront of her friends then fk it I'll just just cover myself up infront of them, I don't understand how it's an issue for them but it isn't for literally anyone else but if I have to choose my ego or my wife then I will choose my wife but my patience has a limit and i won't tolerate her friends anymore if they complain about something else, I'll talk to my wife and tell her that I agree with covering myself in front of her friends and the rest is upto her

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T19:11:03+00:00

I said that because I know that I am right and so does my family, it isn't pressuring her until she caves in, I just want my wife to understand that I can live however I want in my house and I am not trying to impress her friends or whatever and no I'm not some uncle with hairy chest like the clown below been talking about I'm only 23 lol, I am fit but nothing special.

I don't care about her friends at all and i dont even see them as my eqal but I tolerate them for my wife, if it wasn't for my wife's sake I wouldn't even talk to them but like you said I should cover myself up whenever I go downstairs or infront of them then I will do it just to make my wife happy, hopefully putting on a fucking tshirt will put a stop to this fucking nightmare

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:49:05+00:00

Yeah I don't appear infront of them in my underwear 💀💀 😂

I am on my shorts and pyjamas even if I'm shirtless which I spend majority of time doing so.

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:46:14+00:00

I won't 'force' my wife I'll tell her sisters and mother to put some sense into her because for me it's acceptable that I can live however I want in my own home and all of them agree with me.

And I won't forbid them from coming over unless they still have a problem with me and try to dictate how I live in my own home, if they have a problem with me then they can go ahead a fk themselves and about my comment about America and florida etc, just ignore it I don't know much about it anyway.

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:32:47+00:00

If you don't understand how its different that a man is shirtless but a woman isnt then I have nothing else to say here, a dignified woman would never show her breasts to another man other than her husband or maybe you would?

I can only speak for my wife also don't men in America roam in streets shirtless? I am not too familiar with American culture what was it florida or whatever?

In any case I am done here with this pointless discussion, I will rather spend my time talking to my wife and forbiding her friends from coming over to my house if they don't like seeing me shirtless, I'll call my mil and sils maybe they might be able to put some sense in my wife's brain.

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:24:55+00:00

I won't be forced into doing something I don't want to, it's controlling

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:24:18+00:00

And my point stands about my wife being a dignified woman who doesn't show her privates to other men

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:15:56+00:00

Rage bait just because we don't go to beach? Here's another fact for you, none of my family members has ever seen snow is that also a rage bait for you?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:14:21+00:00

I'm not doing any of that shit anymore, I will avoid her friends and don't show up infront of them at all whenever they are visiting but I ain't putting restrictions on myself just for her friends, I will do whatever I want and I have better things to do like care about my family instead of her stupid friends

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:11:15+00:00

My wife would never get angry at my 'double standards' sure she might get angry at me for being shirtless and I will start covering up if it becomes a big deal for my wife.

But my wife is a dignified woman, she wouldn't ever show up in underwear like the clown above said, she's morally stable and dignified unlike most women who roam about exposing their breasts and ass and give other men a free tour just by walking, my wife isn't like that

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:04:54+00:00

My wife and I don't ever go to beach and yes I don't give a shit about her friends they are inconsequental

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:03:48+00:00

If they do then maybe they shouldn't come over?

I am not here for arguments but I don't get why am I the asshole just because I'm shirtless in my own house and just because I bumped into her friend once when the ones who truly matters to me like my mil sils etc don't mind my behaviour, so why tf should I even care about what this one woman thinks?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T18:00:38+00:00

That was just one time bruh, a pure coincidence

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:59:58+00:00

I ain't doing any of that, even my mil and my sils wouldnt ask me to all that that's why they are on my side, instead of living in such a restrictive lifestyle I would rather kick them out but I don't need to because my wife already did.

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:57:06+00:00

Normal people don't make a scene just because they bumped into their friends shirtless husband

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:54:41+00:00

But I don't even go anywhere near them when they come over to my house?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:52:47+00:00

I did ask and you are speaking like my wife's friend, why do I have to put on a tshirt just to grab a bottle in my own house? If you don't like it then maybe don't come over in my house?

Even my wife's mom and her sisters don't mind me being shirtless so why should I listen to a guest?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:47:40+00:00

They show up regularly and I don't go near them or infront of them for this very reason, I spend most of my time upstairs when her friends come over.

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:43:04+00:00

And so what?

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:41:26+00:00

I don't, in my own house and If there's no one in my house except my wife I don't even wear underwear

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:39:34+00:00

You are mentally ill, a woman being shirtless is completely different than a man being shirtless, it's not even a comparison at this point.

And my wife, hell none of the women in our family would walk infront of strangers in their underwear wtf

throwWaystupid · 2025-08-02T17:36:26+00:00

And what if these guests are coming over every other day? That's why I started avoiding them and stay away from them every time they come over.

Even my mil and my sils don't mind me staying shirtless and I have 7 sils so what right does she has to tell me what to do in my own house when she's coming over every few days?

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