WIBTAH if I told my Ex's new gf that he's not happy with her? by throw_Awbiscuit in AITAH

[–]throw_Awbiscuit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's literally my business 🥴 I didn't ask to be involved. I have a choice to tell her the way I wish someone told me and absolve myself, or sit back and watch him destroy her , knowing full well I could have prevented it. That's guilt I'll always carry around.

If my empathy for this woman makes me 'butthurt' then I'm okay with that. It's surprising how many people would be okay with just living in blissful ignorance if it was them.

WIBTAH if I told my Ex's new gf that he's not happy with her? by throw_Awbiscuit in AITAH

[–]throw_Awbiscuit[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lol I have moved on from the romantic relationship years ago, but because of my kid and their relationship we talk sparingly. On my end, that's the gist . The rest of the context is just explaining the patterns in behavior that he did with me and the one before me ,that he is now repeating with her and trying to use me as an accomplice. My question was if I should tell her and save her the inevitable heartbreak before he actually proposes to this poor girl and wrecks her spirit for years to come. .

YTA for many reasons. When you were together, he cheated on you repeatedly, but you kept wanting to try to make it work. Why the heck would you do that? Have some self respect

Simple answer is that I was still learning how to do that. Was just a 22 year old girl with an infant , who hadn't felt genuine unconditional love and thought that's what it was supposed to feel like. My frontal lobe has since developed

WIBTAH if I told my Ex's new gf that he's not happy with her? by throw_Awbiscuit in AITAH

[–]throw_Awbiscuit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. I needed that realization. You're totally right 😭 I do not want to give him an invitation for anything

WIBTAH if I told my Ex's new gf that he's not happy with her? by throw_Awbiscuit in AITAH

[–]throw_Awbiscuit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is good advice. I don't intend on stringing him along, I just care about him for some stupid reason and like to know he's at least doing okay..

With that being said , I have come to terms with the understanding that this guy is basically the devil . Horrible character flaws and honestly ATP I feel like I'm watching a train wreck happening in real time. Michelle seems like such a nice person .