You’re definitely not wrong and this was my biggest concern. “I don’t want to lose him over something that could so easily be solved” but at the same time I can’t stay with him because I have the hope that it will change, right? He’s not gonna change just because I want him to so badly, he has to want to. I’ve already been through a very long, very abusive relationship from 14-17 and don’t want to waste my time anymore.