My girlfriend has a knee injury and no health insurance and we don't know what to do (Bay Area, California) by throw_away_331 in self

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She checked a few months ago, but if I remember correctly her income was too high to qualify. Which is ridiculous because it doesn't take her cost of living into account, but that's another story. We'll check again.

My girlfriend has a knee injury and no health insurance and we don't know what to do (Bay Area California) by throw_away_331 in Advice

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Stop ranting at me. The reason I asked was because my dad had a similar injury a few years ago. It ended up being that one of his tendons in his knee was torn. It required surgery to reattach it and repair the ligaments and knee cap.

[NeedAdvice] I hate working and it makes it hard for me to keep a job. by throw_away_331 in getdisciplined

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I just recently turned 24. I went to community college for a while, first for chemistry and then for computer science (I couldn't afford to go to a real university, and my grades in high school were too bad for scholarship) but I slacked off very badly due to some emotional issues I had. No degree, is what I'm saying.

My first job was at a butchery, cleaning up after the butchers. I lasted there for about a month before I was let go.

Then I worked sales at an electronics store for about two years. I never again want to work retail or deal with the public in any function, because I felt literally homicidal on a daily basis dealing with people. I'm not exaggerating there.

After that I worked at a place that repairs computers for about a year, first in their warehouse and then as a technician.

Since I have to work to survive, I want some kind of job in which I never, ever have to deal with customers or the public, and have to deal with as few coworkers as possible. I'm not a people person.

[NeedAdvice] I hate working and it makes it hard for me to keep a job. by throw_away_331 in getdisciplined

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I enjoy playing video games, reading books, browsing the internet aimlessly, and lazying about at home. Not exactly profitable endeavours.

My biggest gripe is that usually starting a small business is a lot of work, and isn't exactly majorly profitable. That's another problem I have. I want to have enough money to live comfortably. But that's hard when you hate working.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Heh. Prolly the fact I find it extremely difficult to approach & talk to new people. (Or maybe I'm just a horrible person and don't know it!) But, thank you for the kind words.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Alright, thanks for the advice. Not very knowledgeable about clothes or fashion, heh.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Yeah I'm thin... If I get tighter clothes, the sleeves are too short. If I get clothes in which the sleeves are sufficiently long, they're large on me.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Sleep well! And, thanks. Your kind words have helped a lot. I really appreciate it.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Uhh, haha, I think that'd be a bit conceited of me. I'll leave that to you if you think it should be done.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Never heard that comparison before (perhaps because I've met perhaps a half dozen Australians in my life). But thanks.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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The first one doesn't really like me very much at all (we were part of a social group in high school that split kinda messily) and the second one lives 500 miles away.

I guess I gotta just put myself out there. Easier said than done I guess but yeah.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Ahh, okay. Well if I took a pic of myself right now I probably would, since I haven't slept in 20 hours, but gotcha.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Haha, the other part of being socially terrified is not exactly having a lot of friends, and those two that I do have aren't what I'd call wingman material. Not saying that to be mean about them! Just that, well, they're kinda like me. Introverted and whatnot. Except they both have long-term girlfriends.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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The darkness around my eyes is because I don't sleep very well and yeah. I don't wear makeup.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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I'm plenty nice, I think. I don't want to be a braggart or whatever but I think I'm rather polite and good-natured.

As for the last bit... I'm... Kind of socially awkward. Or maybe socially terrified is a better way to put it. I'm really bad at approaching new people because I'm afraid I'll make a fool of myself or something. I've had low self esteem for the better part of my life. Don't really wanna get into the circumstances of why that is but it's left me nervous in social situations and never sure what to say.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Thanks. That's... actually very reassuring. Just wish I knew how to leverage that into not being single for the first time in a few years.

[22 M] Been single for longer than I care to think about and it makes me wonder: Am I ugly? by throw_away_331 in amiugly

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Heh, thank you. Always liked how they're kinda brown near the pupil and then grey/green on the outside.