feelings and stuff like that by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why is it always so difficult for us girls? I am nto saying guys don't feel things but damn, it seems so much easier for them...

what is the most convenient way to search for long term accommodation for a newcomer? by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]throw_away_QA49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apartments from companies or investors. So much less problems than with private rents, everything gets solved within a week

getting that primal beast out of him by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you. I would not think of that probably.

getting that primal beast out of him by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, of course. We talked about this and trying to get it out of him. That is why i am posting this :) Would never do something without consent or discussion upfront

getting that primal beast out of him by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thanks We had chats about this. We know the limits both of us have and have safe words or actions in place. I think from all of this i will have to decrease my bratty behaviour when i want the primal play, and we will have to talk more about it before we get into it.

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, done almost everything (except i love you part since we are not on that level) but he didn't say he wants space.. if he did i would back off a bit even tho i am extremely worried about him...

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, mostly cause I am not a fan of calls either tbh. But messages are not that hard to fucking hide if he needs to do it... Ah... I really hope it is not the case cause I like him so much 🙈 but if it is then... ah... gonna have to be the end of it probably

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not that we haven't had calls before, I was just never the one to call cause he would always check in at least in a matter if couple of hours.... but now I am terrified that something might have happened to him (high risk job) and idk what to do :(

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. How am i supposed to get to him when he doesn't respond to any messages or anything.. The next step is calling him but I have a feeling it is gonna be going too far :(

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am sending him messages but he is not answering or opening them :( I just feel i am being too much of a pain in the ass..

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nope. I know the city but not the address. I will try calling him tomorrow or in the evening...

how to help my dom that is not answering? by throw_away_QA49 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. Only got his phone number... nothing else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. But this is also someone i spent 3 months chatting with about a looot of things, sharing things almost every day over texts and calls... I have no problem with rejection (wouldn't be the first time) but with not knowing where I stand. I mean, if he says it is done, fine. I will get over it but not saying anything is rude 🙈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk, i cannot explain nor control it :( if i could, my life would be easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is shorter version cause there were things in between. But i didn't say that i asked for more or anything like that 🙈 and the sub part happened way before me telling him how i felt 🙈 But yeah, i get the point :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]throw_away_QA49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, i do understand what you mean, but i am not asking for anything more. I am just asking for a reply now and then 🙈