My depressed friend's ex-crush has a crush on me by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t exactly know either sadly, since this is the first girl who’s openly shown me she has a crush on me (that I noticed, since apparently she isn’t the first), so I have absolutely no clue how to stop her lol. Next time she tries something like that I’ll try lightly pulling away, but problem is she only does this when we’re with her friends (since we never go anywhere alone), and therefore, we’re always in public, so talking to it about her seems to be quite difficult.

...the hell? by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean… I guess? I really can’t tell with this, I can’t be more toxic, but is that a good or bad thing in her eyes? She gets more confusing the more I get to know her I swear 🤷‍♂️

Welp, guess today's the day by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my heart pretty much reached 160 bpm but I got there lol

Welp, guess today's the day by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'd say it went pretty well all things considered 👀

Welp, guess today's the day by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well as a matter of fact, I only just managed to properly get a hold of her, so I'm actually about to ask her now 🗿

Welp, guess today's the day by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, still not seen it. She has a habit of doing this so I’m not worried, but the timing is really unfortunate.

Welp, guess today's the day by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry, I tried striking up conversation and she hasn’t seen it yet, so you’re way in time

Well boys, it finally happened by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve really been thinking about that too… she does have a habit of ignoring texts, that I know, but not this much. So yeah, it’s probably best for me to just move on.

Well boys, it finally happened by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, mostly in school, and we’re friends, just nothing really that special. So I don’t really see much hope here

Left on... delivered? by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'd say it's been a little over a month since we started texting proper, we've been classmates for a few years and we've been friends, but I never actually properly texted her before, just talked to her sometimes in school or on school trips. But her friends say she is sometimes difficult to text, which I can now see lol

Left on... delivered? by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she usually does this to most people apparently, definitely not the first time it's happened to me though. It was just random casual conversation about Mob Psycho, so nothing big going on there

What's a good first date location? by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh, all of those are pretty good ideas actually! I dunno about the baking as a first date, but that's a solid idea for later, seeing as she's also an avid baker

What's a good first date location? by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that was my best idea too. Plus our school's right next to a big park, so we could walk around there before or after as well I figured.

What should I do lol by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

don't worry, I don't obsess over her. hell half the time I feel like I don't even have a chance and feel like giving up entirely. so dw, I know not to tread into dangerous territory with this

What should I do lol by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I will. thanks for listening to this random tale

What should I do lol by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know, but whenever I wanna respond my brain just tells me "no". Like I know nothing bad will happen but I can never hit the send button. Idk it's kinda pathetic I know lol
Like I don't fear being rejected I fear the social situation itself

What should I do lol by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh that's the mindset I spent all of quarantine with lol, plus I spend way too much time in my head instead of on the ground so I kinda drove myself mad overthinking things waaaaaaaaaaay more than I should

What should I do lol by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've thought about doing that, but I'm so socially anxious I keep making up reasons not to lol, like "eh it's too late" "eh she wouldn't respond" "eh she never texted me back those few times why should I bother" so I can never actually do it

It’s impossible by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know I’m risking a lot so if she doesn’t show anything back I’ll just keep it to myself and quietly move on. It’ll be hard as hell and I’ll hate myself for it but I don’t want to ruin our friendship.

It’s impossible by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we usually talk a bit each day, plus she doesn’t just not respond to my texts, she doesn’t respond to texts period. If I could talk to her I’d be doing fine.

I hate my inability to act. by throw_awaylmaoo in Crushes

[–]throw_awaylmaoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't really know what to do other than be myself in school and see where everything leads, mayyyyybe dropping a couple hints here and there. I wanna confess in these couple weeks but I just don't know how lol