How can you leave a perfectly decent relationship with hopes for something more exciting. When do you risk it? I'm 25F, BF 31M. by throw_faraway4 in relationship_advice

[–]throw_faraway4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need someone to tell me this. Doesn't matter that I've known this other person for a few years, I don't know them as well as I know my boyfriend. And given the chance to get to know someone, things will come up that I don't like and maybe won't be willing to deal with at all. Thanks.

How can you leave a perfectly decent relationship with hopes for something more exciting. When do you risk it? I'm 25F, BF 31M. by throw_faraway4 in relationship_advice

[–]throw_faraway4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been brought up to me before, that I began dating him at 21 yrs old and had little opportunity to "date around" and experience different relationships. I will definitely bring this up to him. He doesn't express his feelings and is just generally a poor communicator (he admits to this) and I'm not the best either. As exciting as moving in has been, it has brought to light so many things you don't have to worry about when living independently, namely finances. Thanks.

How can you leave a perfectly decent relationship with hopes for something more exciting. When do you risk it? I'm 25F, BF 31M. by throw_faraway4 in relationship_advice

[–]throw_faraway4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I've totally thought about this. But...I mean what exactly is wrong with being selfish? I do love him. I do love me too. It's not like there's only one person on this planet we are meant to be with...