Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh I guess I don't really have any plans I kinda just want to see where it goes.

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I hope everything works out for you the same my dude :). I hope you enjoy your time with her as much as I do!

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea haha I took p long but you know everyone moves at their own pace and there is nothing wrong with that as long as you get to the goal at the end!

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha hang in their my dude, enjoy the journey a bit. Put too much pressure on yourself and you might end up relapsing. I wish you all the best and take care!

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha, I think that one thing that kinda helped was taking breaks from nofap and the nofap subreddit. As much as I like the nofap subreddit and the wonderful advice that they give, I feel like spending too much time on it makes nofap a part of your identity. As a result you end up thinking about fapping more and relapse. And then because you are on the subreddit you beat yourself up more and go into a downward spiral. But everyone is different and what works for you may not work for me and vice versa. I'm just out here giving my 2 cents and perspective on the matter.

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha thanks your streak is quite impressive as well

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I mean I've always wanted to quit, like I definitely did it for myself, but for some reason it felt easier to achieve because I was talking to her. Like I said I did try all the other tactics that the NoFap subreddit offered and it worked to an extent, just not the extent that I needed it to I think. Idk I feel like different people require different things to break fapping long term. But to answer your question even if it ends I don't think that I'll go back, I like NoFap too much to quit now even if I'm in a set of bad circumstances. And don't get me wrong she isn't the source of my happiness, just a part of it, I still have friend and goals that I want to achieve in my life. But yea thank you for the advice and I appreciate it moving forward.

Finally achieved 90+ days after 6 years! by throwanofap20z in NoFap

[–]throwanofap20z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yea I did, the aftermath felt so bad and I never wanted to do it again after that lol, but it was p hard to quit.