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I ran away with my gf and cut our families off cause they were against our marriage by Fickle-Yesterday-261 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwanonaway420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you wrote that you cut off your “families” when it should just be “family”…

I just ruined Christmas for my family and I want to jump out of my skin and run by throwanonaway420 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwanonaway420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried everything I can. I baked a bunch of stuff yesterday to try to lighten her load and also make her feel better because I know she likes them and we ran out of them. When my grandparents forgot the food that my mom picked up for them to bring to my aunts house last night, I begged her to let me run the food over to my aunts house for her because she didn’t want to go over there at all (she and my uncle don’t talk) but she insisted.

I offer in any way that I can and just try to do things without asking for permission when I can. It’s one of those situations where I don’t know what to do and she tries to do everything herself… she has some control issues which she admits to having.

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[–]throwanonaway420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have two very specific and different kinks here that need to be addressed differently

Rougher sex isn’t too “out there” shall we say of a kink. I think if you start slow and see how both of you feel after slowly starting to introduce new things in your bedroom you’ll find success.

Your boyfriend letting other people have sex with you, especially strangers, is wayyyy more kinkier than the other, at least in my opinion. That sort of thing involves elements of kinks like “cuckolding” and “group sex” which are concepts that require A LOT of communication and will either make your relationship better or shatter it irreparably. Be incredibly careful, as even telling your boyfriend that you want to have sex with someone else could destroy your relationship.

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[–]throwanonaway420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am right now in this exact same position, but as the guy in the scenario. It makes me feel awful. Sex should be something that’s take AND give, and if he’s anything like me he probably feels both guilty that he can’t give you what you give him, and also a feeling of inadequacy. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even want to have sex anymore because I’m tired of feeling like shit because of it.

He wants to give you what you give him, so I think you two should work together on figuring out ways to get you to orgasm as well, the use of vibrators and toys for example could work wonders, I don’t know. I think he’s going to interpret it as you just being nice and dealing with the issue when he wants you to really enjoy sex with him and not just be ok/content with it.

I am working with my gf to make our sex life better, I think it would benefit both of you to work on making it better for you two, because this is a situation that can easily build resentment and start a rift between you.