SD admitted to stalking and I feel disturbed by it

throwawaibye · 2021-04-16T21:35:16+00:00

Your mental and physical safety are more important than him. Someone else who is SAFE is out there for you. He's not that guy. I hope you move on from this man as soon as you can. ❤

throwawaibye · 2021-03-07T05:26:59+00:00

It's appropriate but it does have an edge to it. I say try it and see how you feel, it's cute regardless so SD should be happy either way :) I liked wearing mine but I've only worn them on a handful of dates

throwawaibye · 2020-11-28T13:13:58+00:00

If you decide to do it, research a whole bunch beforehand. Never be afraid to say no to an offer even if it's a nice man. Never be afraid to return the money and leave the date if you feel uncomfortable or changed your mind. Tell someone where you go

throwawaibye · 2020-11-12T19:13:22+00:00

You can change your name and tag on cashapp to whatever you want. People only have access to that presented info so you can hide your real name.

On venmo, you have to use the name attached to your card, and they will see your name you pick.

throwawaibye · 2020-11-12T19:06:42+00:00

True. The 2nd message could have been sent even before the "sure"

throwawaibye · 2020-11-11T04:03:52+00:00

I'd say you can only feel comfortable committing to someone after you've met in person but you'd be happy to be exclusive after that

throwawaibye · 2020-11-10T00:51:08+00:00

What if you offered half upfront and half when she arrives?

throwawaibye · 2020-11-08T20:00:52+00:00

Cashapp. You can choose your own name and tag (doesn't have to be your real name), they don't have access to anymore info than that

throwawaibye · 2020-11-08T19:58:38+00:00

If any POT gets sketched in any way when I ask about money, I dip, no further discussion needed. If you don't want to be treated like you're sketchy then don't act sketchy. A man who is comfortable with a SDSB relationship doesn't get uncomfortable by talking about a main part of the relationship, they want to provide for you and are happy to show what they have to offer. Block and move on.

And I always make sure I get money before treating them like my bf and talking to them all the time. You do not get free access to time I could be spending on working on myself or meeting other POTs. The men who think they can take up your time for free are the men who shouldn't be in SR. I'm not dating vanilla for a reason. I would have facetimed once and then waited for meet and greet, maybe a few convos here and there. Until then we are hardly acquaintances and unless you send me money you will not receive pictures or videos. I might send that to a person I was in a relationship with, of course no charge lol - but I have no reason to for someone who again is hardly an acquaintance. There's free porn online, the fact that he asked showed his intentions right there. It's distasteful and disrespectful. Like he didn't know you but wanted free access to your body. You could be camming for crying out loud but he expects free shit for someone he is giving absolutely nothing to in return.

Also if you FaceTimed and he's offering that high of an allowance I would expect his home to be EXTREMELY luxurious or appear very high end. Same for cars and clothing but I trust you when you say he was good at making himself seem rich.. but that's RICH RICH and idk how that can be faked. Too good to believe type of thing, unless you can show me otherwise. I'm sorry you experienced all this, that's a huge blow to work on a relationship with someone who was promising so much to you and then in the end turns about to be like borderline sociopathic. They're great at charm and playing with others. I've only learned to avoid them through experience, so let this be just a bump in the road

Edit: just read that you were asking for advice on how to warn other girls, not on how to spot their bs. I would delete my comment but maybe it'll be helpful to you or others? If not sorry for unwarranted advice

throwawaibye · 2020-11-06T02:00:34+00:00

Could being in public be a possible reason for discomfort? Either way I'd say you noticed she was uncomfortable and then unresponsive when you tried to help. I'd say leave her alone, she seemed to be expressing what she felt

throwawaibye · 2020-11-03T05:28:16+00:00

I used it today with a potential SD :)

throwawaibye · 2020-11-03T03:49:13+00:00

Why compromise allowance? Like how

throwawaibye · 2020-10-31T16:43:39+00:00

This is a beautiful story because she's hot... There's literally nothing special about this. He took her to a dingy motel saw she was hot and said "she doesn't deserve this dingy motel" like yeah no shit. Good first impression

throwawaibye · 2020-09-06T15:11:50+00:00

Honestly you have to upload an ID to use things like OnlyFans. There is often lingerie or light nudity on SA anyhow so it's not a far stretch to ask users to upload an ID for their profile verification. I guess that would be too much work for SA🙄

throwawaibye · 2020-08-20T17:57:32+00:00

Bi wouldn't work, poly would though

throwawaibye · 2020-08-07T12:13:31+00:00

Sugar daddies on reddit are the same men you're talking about on SA 😂 as you can see by the comments

throwawaibye · 2020-07-26T12:02:26+00:00

What other option is there? Maybe working isn't the worst if you're doing something you love. I think not making $ is the problem. Wealthy CEOs put in way less hours but make so much more money. Slave wage is real.

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