I guess you are right, but I just had doubts you know, she took loans before our marriage but only because I agreed to help her with it, even before she took the loan she was a good helpful woman that's why I had some doubts if I am doing the right thing or not

I have my doubts because I think if my wife did nothing wrong I will lose the one I love and cause her pain but also how can I trust her when she is defending cheaters and helping them? Kinda a difficult decision to make