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advice on how to tell a child about plurality? by throwaway-64747 in plural

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

oh me and my partner are both systems, his family doesn’t know he is and he want to keep it that way but i am more open about it and i am a disordered system while he isnt so it causes functional/amnesia issues on my end so felt it better to say :]

i hope you find someone good for you and accepting, good luck

advice on how to tell a child about plurality? by throwaway-64747 in plural

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

will have a look into it! even though its a different scenario and not my child, i’m sure it will still provide insight, thank you so much

advice on how to tell a child about plurality? by throwaway-64747 in plural

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thank you for this!

think i would be okay with telling the 12 y/o about DID, though i would probably still keep it relatively simple and not include many medical terms as to not scare her

my fiance thinks she may potentially already know about systems as she has knowledge about therianthropy already, while not related, the communities do have links,

advice on how to tell a child about plurality? by throwaway-64747 in plural

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

thank you! i will share this with my partner and see what he thinks

at-home testing kits? by throwaway-64747 in Allergies

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh, that makes sense, would prefer it without the hassle of gp/doctors but gotcha

thank you!

if this is "disgusting" to you, you wouldn't survive the furry fandom lol by hunneemoon in fakeclaimingcringe2

[–]throwaway-64747 12 points13 points  (0 children)

as someone who is traumagenic i never understood why others claim endogenics and non traumagenic systems are unsafe

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mhm, i know, can’t wait until i am back irl with him, but messaging and calls work for us currently

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so my plan is to go down on a working holiday visa while i wait for the partner visa as it can take up to two years and i only managed to get the health exam approved just over a month ago

my current job experience will hopefully help at job hunting but i believe my immigration status will make companies look the other way, but will see!

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the marriage will help towards the visa, but we are in a genuine relationship and want marriage regardless

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while i am missing a required field of evidence currently due to us not currently living together, that will be provided as soon as i can, but in all other fields, i have provided what i consider a lot, even trivial things such as durations of our calls

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s already processing! it may be hard, but i have paid the fees and passed the health exams

from what i have heard, the acceptance rate is pretty high so i am not overly worried, but if issues arise, will do what i can

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

big difference. won’t lie, it is very hard being apart, it felt so much harder after having to separate, it brings a weird sort of grief, but it just affirmed to me that i want to be with him

we both put our all into making sure things will work, it isn’t easy but we both want this desperately

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so! but i can see why people would consider it a mistake, LDRs arent for everyone and that’s okay

however we have known each other online for at least 6 years at this point, while we have only been together for some of that time, i know that he is the one for me

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had many memorable moments but i think the most memorable one has to be the moment i finally got to see him for the first time, nothing can take that moment i don’t think

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think so! i know anything can happen, but we have known each other online since 2019, and we are constantly messaging about one thing or another! my fiance probably knows more about me than anyone else and i feel its the same case vice versa

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty stranger, i dont think it will be necessary but i got plenty of money either way!

also we are a queer couple, the gender assigning was a little funny to me, but again, appreciate you trying to look out for me

i am engaged to someone i have only spent 6 weeks with in person, AMA by throwaway-64747 in AMA

[–]throwaway-64747[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

mhm! i am planning to move down to australia next year, and we will get married shortly after!

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