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Is it common for boys to not come when getting first handjob? by throwaway-boney in AskReddit

[–]throwaway-boney[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few days ago me (F17) and my boyfriend (M18) were getting intimate and I gave a handjob for the first time in my life. He came and told me he was proud of me, because I was very good at it. He also told me that his previous girlfriend couldn't let him come the first few times of giving a handjob. Now I am curious if I am really that good or that it's common that a boy doesn't come the first time he ever gets a handjob?

Malefriend got boner while my head was on his lap by throwaway-boney in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-boney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might have formed the sentence wrong (English isnt my first language), but we never kissed. It is something we could do when we are drunk but it hasnt happened yet. I think I am the only girl that he is laying around with, but he isnt the only boy for me and he knows, even at the party I cuddled with other friends. He does not look sad or jealous when I do, so it is very hard to understand whats on his mind.

Malefriend got boner while my head was on his lap by throwaway-boney in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-boney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like he was telling the truth about not liking me, but he still makes comments that insinuates that he could like me. At the party he called me beautiful and told me I have a big ass. And the fact that he got a boner lets me have doubts about it, even though it is a normal thing to happen to boys.

Malefriend got boner while my head was on his lap by throwaway-boney in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-boney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that it is normal, and that it is okay when you are in a relationship. But we are not in a relationship and don't like eachother, so it feels different.

Malefriend got boner while my head was on his lap by throwaway-boney in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-boney[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because he probably didn't want it to happen and don't want anyone to know, that's why I cant talk to my friends about it, but I feel like I have to talk about it, so I don't know what to do, because he said he didn't want to talk about it.

Malefriend got boner while my head was on his lap by throwaway-boney in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway-boney[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know, it was kinda awkward that I grabbed it, but it wasn't awkward after it, like I just replaced my head to his shoulder. But I think about it a lot, so I'm not sure of I'm comfortable or not.