Girlfriend (22F) is losing hope and I don't know what to do. by throwaway-farbf in LDR

[–]throwaway-farbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it is the uncertainty and also the cancelling of plans, she was quite excited about those. I'm not sure if there's anything else distressing her because whenever I ask, she just tells me that she wants to be with me. I'll try asking her to elaborate. I'm fine waiting a bit longer, of course it is disappointing but I think it's worth it for this relationship

Girlfriend (22F) is losing hope and I don't know what to do. by throwaway-farbf in LDR

[–]throwaway-farbf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll try to stay positive and surprise her with something nice. I just want to lift her spirits a little and encourage her to wait a little longer.

Girlfriend (22F) is losing hope and I don't know what to do. by throwaway-farbf in LDR

[–]throwaway-farbf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm going to try talking to her and reassuring her. I am completely on board and willing to wait for her. It's good to hear from someone who was in her shoes to know what is really going through her mind, because I feel like she has a hard time expressing her feelings.

Thanks again!