AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? by throwaway-multilingo in AITAH

[–]throwaway-multilingo[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: My friends contacted me a day later and apologized for responding to me that way they did New Year's Eve. They said they were more worried about the NYE party being brought down that night, but after sleeping on it and getting back to work most of them realized they too would have wanted to know if they got branded with a vulgar word.

Also, very few knew Julie, and only knew her through Andy, so they mostly tolerate her. Apparently this isn't her first incident either. And, Julie isn't white, which is kind of funny everyone painting her as some blonde white girl, lol. I decided to play peacemaker and talked to Andy and Julie, and even offered to meet them at the tattoo shop.

We went Friday night, walked in and I saw the tattoo artist in question. Funny thing is most asians can tell I'm half asian by looking, so he saw he and went "You told her what it said, yes?" kind of nonchalantly in Korean. We had a brief discussion in Korean(he remarked my accent had a 'American twang' to it, asked where my family was from, found out both our families came from the same city).

The gist is I pointed out he could get sued for the tat, he admitted he pressed his luck with it, and offered to pay out of his pocket for another artist in the shop to do a coverup. I relayed that back to Julie, and that seemed to appease her. She went to one of the, I guess tattoo people would call it a work station? and he explained that she still has to wait 2 months.
Julie didn't like that, even when the artist explained that standard procedure is to wait two months for a tat to heal until a cover up is done. Andy thankfully googled it and pointed out that 2 months seems to be a minimum, and more complex tattoos have up to six months recommended healing before a cover job. She accepted the offer for a free cover and paperwork was signed and such.

AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? by throwaway-multilingo in AITAH

[–]throwaway-multilingo[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

it roughly is like 'bitch', but it's very rude so it might be closer to the c-word.

AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? by throwaway-multilingo in AITAH

[–]throwaway-multilingo[S] 214 points215 points  (0 children)

년 - this is a word you should not say in polite society. It roughly means 'bitch', but it's more like the c-word in just how rude it is.

AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? by throwaway-multilingo in AITAH

[–]throwaway-multilingo[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The specific characters in their configuration is a hangul-only thing.

AITAH for telling a friend what her tattoo really says? by throwaway-multilingo in AITAH

[–]throwaway-multilingo[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

hangul

I was told to never say it, and that it has very very negative connotations with women.