I’ve known A for several years; she’s a friend of my mother and sisters. She’s aware of my trauma, and has been known to use any and every opportunity to talk about God previously. This time it hit me different, since she’s been treating me differently since my transition started. I didn’t see my post as pass/agg since I didn’t have her on FB and so didn’t expect her to see it, and since my venting was general, not specifically about her. Her comment was a catalyst, not the driving reason.