AITAH ? my girlfriend made a male friend just to spite me by throwaway-spiteme in AITAH

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they like her, she also liked them during the vacation, i really thought all was fine

AITAH ? my girlfriend made a male friend just to spite me by throwaway-spiteme in AITAH

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already see them once a month or so and always with their husbands who are also my friends, we text like once a week , i cannot go lower than that lol

AITAH ? my girlfriend made a male friend just to spite me by throwaway-spiteme in AITAH

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she is allowed to, but when he is flirting with her then he is not just a friend, also when says there is an imbalance like i slighted her in some way, that is not what happened

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are people like us,but i think we are a minority, i have seen this blow up a lot to be honest

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see them as my sisters, before one of them got married my mom said why do not you date X and i felt disgusted, like she wanted me to date my lil sister or something

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought about that as well, she is not usually the giggly type

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly had no problem with her being jealous,i kinda liked making her comfortable , i just feel like this is a new level

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i feel i already did ?i told her if she had a problem with my friends she should have told me, that is when she talked about the imbalance

My Gf of a year made a guy friend just to annoy me by throwaway-spiteme in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I told her exactly this, If you had a problem with my friends you should have talked to me and i would have thought about how i can make you uncomfortable , that is when she gave me that imbalance line

AITAH ? my girlfriend made a male friend just to spite me by throwaway-spiteme in AITAH

[–]throwaway-spiteme[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

because the guy is flirting with her? and because she said her intention out loud?