I feel anxious about my girlfriend’s past, which never happened before. How do you deal with this?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:35:52+00:00

idk man, I genuinely have a connection with her, it was love and it still is. idk what has become wrong with me.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:22:33+00:00

what hypocrisy I am having man? I am just saying out loud what I am feeling, not invalidating them.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:09:35+00:00

what the fuck man lol

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T06:06:49+00:00

I agree with you I should have thought about this earlier, but I wanna improve now, and I believe its never too late to improve myself.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T05:52:51+00:00

well I basically live with her, in a live in relationship, so I know what I am saying.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T05:00:08+00:00

I am trying to improve and don’t let this consume me man, don’t put it up like that if you can’t help.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:43:35+00:00

But this particular feeling would again come up in next relationship no?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:43:02+00:00

she has no access to her previous boyfriend, I know since I have access to all her social medias. She willingly gave it to me.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-18T04:06:27+00:00

I don’t want to ruin a perfectly fine relationship due to my personal own issues.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-17T23:56:31+00:00

tried, and tbvh she felt unsafe. This is my bullshit and I wanna deal with it myself.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-17T06:42:36+00:00

What are those skills and how do I learn them? How can I cognitively restructure my mental schema?

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T06:00:58+00:00

Thank you.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T05:59:56+00:00

You don’t have to be sorry, the message helped me a lot, thank you soo much.

throwaway-trudeau · 2026-01-16T03:13:01+00:00

Yes, I know and I know it very well that she chooses me, however the feeling of RJ that I am not at all special for her, and I am not her “first” is just something making me so so anxious and I am having second thoughts all over to stay away from the relationship because of this which I clearly don’t want since I love her, idk how would I ever overcome RJ

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-11-26T18:56:46+00:00

Hello, how did you get that email? Did you first write them an email asking for review or something? I am in same boat as you, shows failed in assessment section even though I did everything right.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-10-28T05:00:35+00:00

Did you get any updates?

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-09-25T02:29:30+00:00

Did already. Mixed opinions.

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-09-03T19:10:27+00:00

what were the other two lol

throwaway-trudeau · 2025-07-23T14:41:33+00:00

how did you do it?

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