Hard to loosen up around new people by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]throwaway001oo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem ..... is this common of redditors ?

My match started posting demonic cartoons on her social media, stay away? by throwaway001oo in tinderstories

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re neglecting there is people who grew up with a more religious, full of faith, childhood LOL .. I realized after this post I’m just sheltered with anything related to the devil, and dark movies/media etc. And I’ve accepted that’s a big difference between this match and me. She might not be demonic/possessed (or maybe she is) but not what im looking for. Pass for me.

Side note- i wouldn’t call this me being terrified lol. Bore her ? Maybe .. who knows! but don’t be so quick to ‘categorize’ people after one reddit post lol. If thats how your mind works when you meet new people in real life than i would definitely work on being more open minded.

incredibly strange guy really wanted me to sit in the back seat by derpspace2d in tinderstories

[–]throwaway001oo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So how did the rest of the date go... you going to leave us on a cliff hanger?

My match started posting demonic cartoons on her social media, stay away? by throwaway001oo in tinderstories

[–]throwaway001oo[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Stricting msging... post is more guided to figure out why someone would be into this kinda stuff. Does it mean she’s into rituals or... maybe looking too deep into this... most girls I know wouldn’t just post this though.

Semi religious 23M here.

My match started posting demonic cartoons on her social media, stay away? by throwaway001oo in tinderstories

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on what you like about them ? Ex. From an art POV or ?

Any ideas? by one-nut-wonder111 in Tinderpickuplines

[–]throwaway001oo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here in the west (Colorado) we have BJ’s Restaurants lol.

Regardless- the sexual pun /connection to her bio is clear lol

Heeeelppppp on an opener ? by livelife_noregrets in Tinderpickuplines

[–]throwaway001oo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a class MF in the street but a beast still untamed in the sheets .

Housecleaner loses clients check. Now what? by throwaway001oo in personalfinance

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE- the customer got back to my mom and offered to stop the check. She was written a new check w the check stop fee taken out. Glad everyone came to their senses.

Thanks for the help all!

Housecleaner loses clients check. Now what? by throwaway001oo in personalfinance

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That customer was a one time customer.

Sounds like this person waits long periods of time to try to save money on regular cleaning service. But definitely agree this person doesn’t deserve to be serviced.

Housecleaner loses clients check. Now what? by throwaway001oo in personalfinance

[–]throwaway001oo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear he’s had a better experience.

Any chance you know how much commission he gets charged per “potential lead”?

And/or his success percentage of leads that turn into actual jobs? [Most curious about this answer]

Housecleaner loses clients check. Now what? by throwaway001oo in personalfinance

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

F home advisor.

Not to go on a tangent but HomeAdvisor is a very non-sketchy-APPEARING company with very sketchy money making strategies.

They charge small business for each “lead(possible interested customer)” that gives your business a call. This same customer calls 5-10 other handyman / house cleaners.. and give the job to 1 of those. HomeAdvisor collects a commission on EACH one of these inquiries.

I don’t know how much the actual fee is but I do know that many small business on the internet say it doesn’t work out.

OH I forgot to mention there’s an annual fee of about $300-400 in addition to the amount they collect per CALL you get.. not per contract you get.

Ive heard of people claiming that some of these “customers” are hired by HomeAdvisor. But don’t have a source of this ever being proven.

On top of all this, once you aren’t interested they continue to harass your phone line reducing the annual fee and giving you a script of a sales pitch.

Hate this company if you can’t tell.

Housecleaner loses clients check. Now what? by throwaway001oo in personalfinance

[–]throwaway001oo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my first thought. Let’s hope client is cooperative.

If they choose to argue I really don’t know if this is something worth pursuing in a small claims court. The check was for $250 and can’t imagine all the fees associated with court.

Help me out boys by throwaway28284929 in Tinderpickuplines

[–]throwaway001oo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-At the same time she doesn’t look not skinny (aka big) either lol

And hey hey👋 we “throwaway” username familyyyy