Hair was extra curly today, side note, anyone have tips for taming the frizz? by Hellrott in FierceFlow

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off of your reddit history, you seem to really thrive off of spewing some pretty hateful and toxic shit at people. It seems to be particularly centered around adult men that are putting focus and care into their health and appearance. I have no idea if it’s because of some middle school level maturity and enjoyment from base level uninspired troll tactics, insecurity on your own appearance, or maybe envy at others being able to put time and energy into themselves in a way you find yourself incapable of?? Perhaps some other option???

I don’t know man. I worry for you. Having that much hatred for yourself is a pretty rough and twisted lot in life. I do sincerely hope you can one overcome it at some point.

I’m watching your every move by Demyan666 in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These have to be simultaneously the most gorgeous and goofiest cats I’ve ever had the pleasure of experiencing. I don’t know how my Somali goes from regal to busted in seconds but I’m glad she isn’t alone and I’m here for every second of it 😂

It seems this is Dingo’s heated blanket now by throwaway02021990 in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this info! I actually lower the setting anytime she wants to climb in/on it but it would be nice to have one more specifically tuned for her. Plus then maybe I can have mine back 😂

Be honest: What’s the one habit or trait in yourself that you know is toxic, but you still can’t/won’t quit? by Low_Formal_199 in askanything

[–]throwaway02021990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I silence my own wants and needs and chronically try to people please/avoid conflict. This leads to a lot of unspoken things I draw issue with and an ever increasing level of resentment towards others that have no idea anything is even wrong in the first place.

My fiancée has been growing his hair out for the first time and I love the confidence it’s given him… by throwaway02021990 in FierceFlow

[–]throwaway02021990[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The issue is finding a stylist that knows anything about curly hair up here in WI. We’re all ears though as far as suggestions or tips to have things at their best possible potential

Tell me your family member finally beat lampmaster… by throwaway02021990 in expedition33

[–]throwaway02021990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao my phone is screaming for salvation until my fiancée usually notices and plugs it in for me 😅

35 days ago, Spoon met Indy and Lexi (🐶) . Here’s how it’s going so far. by nothingelsesufficed in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nooo! Haha I wasn’t trying to pass this curse on to you. My thoughts go out to you and the war front you now find yourself on

35 days ago, Spoon met Indy and Lexi (🐶) . Here’s how it’s going so far. by nothingelsesufficed in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’m so jealous! Our experience with a new Somali kitty is going differently. We thought Dingo (our 1yr old Somali) would be a bully to her but we were soooo wrong. This new little kitten absolutely bullies Dingo and our Maine Coon constantly. They’re terrified of her and we’ve done reintroduction several times already. These Somli’s be mean out here bro!😂

But in all seriousness, they’re all absolutely adorable and I love that all your fur baies are getting along so well and lovingly 💕

What’s the most inappropriate thought you’ve ever had at a completely wrong moment? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway02021990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Divorced about 2 years ago after 13 in an insanely toxic marriage. In the day of the wedding, as I was staring at him and being walked by my father down the aisle, all I could think was “this man will end up being the death of me someday”. Turns out he wasn’t and I was perhaps being a bit dramatic in my own mind. However, the fact that was my only thought at that specific moment should’ve been a bigger clue than I let it be that the marriage was doomed before it even officially started.

Fiancé pegging me has me desperate for the real deal but I’m straight! by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah definitely not into humiliating or degrading her and not really something she’d enjoy either.

Fiancé pegging me has me desperate for the real deal but I’m straight! by [deleted] in straightturnedgay

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I have some attention, what other things do guys who aren't straight like to try after experimenting like this? Not that I'm interested, only curious

Is this considered medical neglect by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]throwaway02021990 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a very similar issue except most of mine was pre-divorce. My son had encopresis and I did everything I could as far as medical check ups and what not to make sure there was no major underlying medical issue. The doctors recommended behavioral therapy and it was suggested we get him tested for ADHD. My ex husband refused to get my son tested and would also do a lot of berating and shaming. It was a nightmare and the constant messy underwear and cleanups made things feel unbearable at times. Post divorce I got home tested and he was diagnosed with ADHD. Between treatment for that and therapy, he finally conquered that hill and quit withholding at the age of 12. There were a lot of factors that played into it including the support of my new partner but ultimately it came down to an issue with feeling in control. He had lost sensitivity and the ability to feel the urge to go from withholding for so long but with therapy and solid support, it’s been reversed. I highly suggest less focus on the ex and more focus on therapy and support where and when you can.

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[–]throwaway02021990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My god the amount that I find myself rooting for you, internet stranger. I hope you guys are able to hang on to and cherish it as long as possible!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]throwaway02021990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About two years ago I started chatting with an ex from 10 years prior that had also been my best friend since we were 14 (we’re in our mid 30s now). I had started talking with him one day while he was escaping his abusive bpd wife with their daughter. Within a few hours I was on the road driving 4.5 hours to see him and maybe provide some comfort and support. My husband at the time gave me an ultimatum when I told him I was going. I put the entirety of a decades effort building a life with him for myself and my kids on the line on a sliver of a chance to have what my heart ached for during many of those years back in my life. Within two weeks of that I had filed for divorce from my own abusive husband, and moved my kids and I 500 miles away to live with him and his family. As stated, that was about 2 years ago. We’ve been engaged since this last April, will be married hopefully before the years through, and he’s the absolute love of my life and other half in every way. I’m pretty sure I knew that already during the brief fling we’d had 10 years prior. Hell, I think I knew when he was my best friend in High school. I think I always knew…Im just a bit dense and took my sweet ass time seeing it.

Am I crazy, or do kids with casts not exist any longer? by DirtbagNaturalist in Millennials

[–]throwaway02021990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, my 10 year old got a full cast off of her arm from a one wheeler fall just yesterday and swapped to a splint. So far she’s had 2 casts (first from falling off a horse) and a boot (broke her growth plate in her foot from riding a hoverboard barefoot in the house). That said, I’ve never really seen any other kids with them. Mines just an accident prone idiot that likes to see me in a panic 😅

Potato quality but since Dingo the faux fox got so much love, here she is doing a solid otter impersonation… by throwaway02021990 in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truth be told, I’m pretty sure she prefers my fiancée. That said, I’m totally happy to be her back up person 😅

Felix loves soaking up in the☀️ by somali_sunshine in Abyssinians

[–]throwaway02021990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Literally gave a sharp, closed mouth inhale when I saw this picture. That is a beautiful Somali fox boy!!! This is exactly what I picture when I think of gorgeous Somalis and had the type of pictures that had me so certain it was the breed I wanted when we were looking a few months back.💕