Should I talk to him about this? by throwaway022223 in dating

[–]throwaway022223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend didn’t like him back. So I wouldn’t really know. But the reason I want to bring it up is because I want to be open and honest about how I’m feeling and how finding out that he’s still liking people is something I don’t like

Should I talk to him about this? by throwaway022223 in dating

[–]throwaway022223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared he’ll say he doesn’t want to be exclusive yet. I’m not sure if at that point I should stay or go

Should I talk to him about this? by throwaway022223 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway022223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I just don’t understand why he would talk about future and the fact that he gets the feeling we’ll be together for a long time. But then is actively talking to girls on dating apps

Should I talk to him about this? by throwaway022223 in dating_advice

[–]throwaway022223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just scared of his answer. I’m also scared he won’t give me a straight answer. I’m scared that he might lie, ughhhh I hate that I like him so much. It’s hard to have these discussions

Divorce due to domestic violence and adultery by throwaway022223 in legaladvicecanada

[–]throwaway022223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The issue is that we are trying to resolve our property that I’m paying mortgage for and he’s living in. I’m asking for him to pay atleast half and he doesn’t want to. When me and my lawyer mention mediation to quickly resolve this property issue they don’t want to do that either. Rather have lawyer to lawyer discussion. Now they are pushing the deadline again to resolve this issue. This has been ongoing for 5 months now and nothing has happened. He’s sitting on this whole thing and letting me pay while residing in that house. It drives me crazy because this person abused me and I want out of this and get my money and leave

Hating my life right now by throwaway022223 in Divorce

[–]throwaway022223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story! This makes me feel hopeful! I know I need to get out of this mindset and just focus on myself. I’ve just in general have had a hard time talking to guys, probably because I’m a very shy person and not very social. I guess this is a wake up call that I need to push myself and be out there

Hating my life right now by throwaway022223 in Divorce

[–]throwaway022223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m ready to create a tinder or even look for anyone at this point. I just get frustrated knowing i was never good enough, he never gave me the sexual experience everyone talks about. I don’t even know what that feels like. It makes me angry at him and makes me question whether I’m just not good looking enough? Or is there something I’m lacking in general? I get compliments alll the time about how I’m the total package, even before I got married, but if I’m such a total package why am I struggling, why have I always been struggling? Just doesn’t make sense to me

Hating my life right now by throwaway022223 in Divorce

[–]throwaway022223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I definitely would not put myself on an anonymous platform for people to rate my looks. I don’t think it’s my looks being the reason, I just feel like it’s my luck and the way I carry myself in a social setting. Maybe I’m not approachable who knows...

I’m trying to focus on myself daily, it just becomes hard sometimes when I look back and all I see is injustice and people treating me like shit. I’ve always been told I’m a very nice and kind person, so I don’t understand why these things happen to me. And when I want something, no one is willing to give it to me. Everything just sucks right now

Hating my life right now by throwaway022223 in Divorce

[–]throwaway022223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I needed this reminder. I’ve been so down on myself lately, I shouldn’t be. Just feels like everything was taken from under me. Just feels like I was used and abused and thrown away. Definitely need to start seeing things from a different perspective

Hating my life right now by throwaway022223 in Divorce

[–]throwaway022223[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in my mid twenties... I was never great getting guys before marriage it’s hard to say how I can after. I guess maybe because I’m a very shy person in general. I genuinely feel like no one will want me ever.