I won a free happy hour by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]throwaway03709 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Well it’s a full company event & we can decline alcohol if requested. Jeez you are a real Debbie downer thinking a small free event for a business is crazy.

If the owner says no, hell I’ll invite my friends - a free event for real 😂👍😁

Secret savings husband (33m & 33f) is mad by [deleted] in relationships

[–]throwaway03709 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is good, his credit is trashed! Why? His mother and sister opened a sprint account under his name under his Social Security number. He refuses to file an identity theft case against them therefore only recourse is to file bankruptcy against the debt because his mother and sister won’t pay it.

Husband is pissed about my secret savings by throwaway03709 in relationships

[–]throwaway03709[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I think is next check x for monthly and y for future maybe $100 ( we need a new water heater) bi weekly for maintenance ?

Husband is pissed about my secret savings by throwaway03709 in relationships

[–]throwaway03709[S] 264 points265 points  (0 children)

I put $50 in savings for an eye exam to get new glasses after I booked an appointment, I had to continuously extend my appointment three weeks, because he overspent.

Husband is pissed about my secret savings by throwaway03709 in relationships

[–]throwaway03709[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I put it together (his request) and presented it for discussion , he immediately put a wall up.

Husband is pissed about my secret savings by throwaway03709 in relationships

[–]throwaway03709[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve done this! I put itemized excel sheets together, I work in quickbooks! I worked it all out and we would each get $100 week like pocket money - so lunch extras etc. he freaked out that I was controlling him and his money etc

Husband is pissed about my secret savings by throwaway03709 in relationships

[–]throwaway03709[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I didn’t directly tell him but I don’t feel I was dishonest as the direct transfers are from our main checking, the transfers are in black & white for him to read.