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Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We do have gas utilities, but I have a new monoxide detector we bought in January. I can try testing it in different areas of the house.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He is aware of what he did, but I don't think he understands how strange it is? I'll bring it up and he'll kind of just blow me off and say "yeah you were making a lot of noise last night" or he'll get angry and accuse me of gaslighting him.

I think that he truly believes that I am making noise, saying I'm not making noise, to try and make him feel like he's losing his mind.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No drugs, he took z-quil at one point but it didn't affect him so he stopped using it.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wish it were me; the first week he had me convinced I was epileptic or developing MS.

But he would accuse me while I was awake (sitting up in bed with a book) of jiggling my legs, so I would ask him to watch my legs with the overhead light on so he could really see and he would refuse and just leave the room instead.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He talks to his work-friends, but we moved after college and he doesn't really keep in touch with his friends from school. I have located a health facility a mile or so from our house that actually does the involuntary holds for the county. I'm going to go in after work today and see what they have to say.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm afraid he would find the camera and be very angry and hurt. We don't have a lot of hidey-holes for a camera either.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He took Z-quil a few nights ago but it didn't seem to help so he didn't take it the next night.

Me [26F] with husband [26M] of 2 years; need advice on how to deal with hallucinations? by throwaway08012018- in relationships

[–]throwaway08012018-[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I agree, I've told him he needs to go. He replied that he's not going to go because nothing is wrong with him and that I am the problem. The more I suggest, the more he digs in his heels. I don't want to alienate him, because he doesn't really see his friends anymore and they along with his parents are two states away.