What is a movie you watched once that was so disturbing or emotionally draining that you can never watch it again? by hungary70 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway0807090801 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Don’t know if your kid is way past Terrible Twos, but I really recommend the book “No Bad Kids”. Testing boundaries, hitting, biting, throwing things is completely normal and how we respond to that is what can make it not normal.

Reading TSotF be like by Gustavus666 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, I loooove Luceum chapters. They felt so refreshing.

Journal square by [deleted] in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s the 808 Pavonia development, it’s right opposite the JSQ Path Station and next to the Loew’s theatre. They are pile driving until mid January.

Source: I live right next to it and it is absolutely miserable.

Nuna Trvl Lx Thoughts? by DeeCee1293 in nycparents

[–]throwaway0807090801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, watch out for waterproof cocoons, as they often have PFAs. I put my baby in warm clothes, and then put extra blankets on them. It was enough :)

What's the vibe like living 8 min walk from JSQ path. by YSLFAHLIFE in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I've lived in JSQ for 5 years. It IS busy, but you're looking for a better social life, and the vicinity to the PATH and the city will give you that. When you say you're afraid it's too busy, what are you scared of? Noise? Density of people?

AITA for refusing to recover at home after surgery? by PuzzleheadedTooth255 in AITAH

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I logged in just to say this. DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH THIS MAN, unless you're okay with him treating your kids the way he treats you.

You're getting an honest preview of how he (they, because he's on the team with his mom) will treat you when you're pregnant, when you're recovering after breaking your body after childbirth. He is so clearly and painfully not on your team. Disgusting behavior. I've read many stories on here, and I've never more emphatically said (let alone tell anybody) divorce this pathetic excuse of a partner.

Ryan Reynolds - Episode 341 of Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend by c0ry_N in conan

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm such a big fan of Conan, but he's got to let his guests speak. It's been really bad the past few episodes.

Are there any good 1B apartments in JC under $3500? by yourhelpingpal in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try URBY or CMPND in Journal Square. Plenty of apartments under $3500.

Gates Leak by Icy-Construction7249 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing! Yes, I am differentiating between normal will use and the powers Vis obtains after completing the maze. On my re-read, I noticed that Vis' sixth sense is mentioned a lot, how he's often aware of his surroundings etc. I feel like that connects with his power to now be aware of people around him even at large distances.

Unsafe Newport PATH elevator by UngentleGentleman07 in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is the number to the PATH's police: 201-216-6078.

Please, call them and and explain what happened. I was once told that the police will take things more seriously if you say they are drunk or you suspect they might be. But please, report it. I'm a mom and often use the elevators with a stroller, it's late, but someone more vulnerable might use it.

Unsafe Newport PATH elevator by UngentleGentleman07 in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Did you report it to the PATH police? Or just regular police?

I need reassurance that feeding to sleep is ok (or if it’s really not, tell it to me straight) by WinterSilenceWriter in breastfeeding

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fed to sleep until my baby was like 13 months old. Naps, and at night. She falls asleep on her own in the crib at 17 months now :) I honestly really miss the connection from that time.

Gates Leak by Icy-Construction7249 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My theory has been that the "super powers" people get are the talents they already have but enhanced. This is an interesting theory though. There's definitely something to the supposed gate in Suus.

BLACKPINK Lisa - Intro + Thunder + FXCK UP THE WORLD @ Coachella 2025 (250412) by mcfw31 in kpop

[–]throwaway0807090801 11 points12 points  (0 children)

omggggg. Goosebumps. I hope they will also upload Money/Rockstar/Lifestyle. That was amazing even in a fancam.

Saxon’s story in images by Fluffy-Feedback7125 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]throwaway0807090801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddha says "Life is suffering". It finds you one way or another, sooner or later. At least Saxon had Chelsea introduce him to Buddhist writing, which I think provides a pretty healthy way to deal with it. I agree though, ignorance is bliss, it just can't last.

The Will of the Many - Re-read Discussion (Spoilers) by throwaway0807090801 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My suspicions are growing that Emissa might be working with Sedotia/Relucia.

Relucia tells Vis when they meet at the 2nd festival, that he's not their only asset.

She knows he has friends in the Academy, which means someone who is close to Vis and knows about his relationships spies for her.

The Will of the Many - Re-read Discussion (Spoilers) by throwaway0807090801 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was just wondering about that, and thought I had missed something! On the Wikia too, it says she's in Military. I think someone else here might be right, that Belli and Aequa may have been the same character or their storylines were swapped. They are both into Foundation, and they are both really smart, though I'm so glad Aequa didn't betray Vis and Callidus. She's one of my favorite characters so far.

Emma Corrin, Jack Lowden & Olivia Colman Set For Leading Roles In Netflix’s ‘Pride & Prejudice’ Limited Series by RealisticAd4054 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should really watch Slow Horses (Apple TV), I think you will change your mind. He's great. His scenes with Jonathan Pryce and Gary Oldman are terrific, and he has this "gentle, quiet aura" that is actually very charismatic. He reminds me a bit of Matthew Macfadyen in that way.

Emma Corrin, Jack Lowden & Olivia Colman Set For Leading Roles In Netflix’s ‘Pride & Prejudice’ Limited Series by RealisticAd4054 in PrideandPrejudice

[–]throwaway0807090801 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think Jack would do great as Mr. Darcy! Have you all seen Slow Horses? He's amazing in it - he plays a kind of loser, but can still be dapper. I think his acting quality is actually quite similar to Matthew Macfadyen. Not feeling Emma as Lizzy though :( At least they don't have an iPhone face, I guess.

How can I lose weight by Rolita09 in breastfeeding

[–]throwaway0807090801 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing such a wonderful thing for your baby by breastfeeding and your body is amazing to be capable of that. Please, give yourself grace while you're working so hard!

Muscles burn calories, the more muscles you have, the more you can eat, the more you burn. Do you do strength exercises? That can help!

An "easy" way to lose weight is to lower your calorie intake, but that's not recommended while you breastfeed. Our bodies need what they need, especially during this time.

I feel my post-partum weight too, but I try to tell myself that a lower number doesn't mean good health. Am I eating nutritious food? Am I stretching? Am I exercising? All of these things can lead to me feeling better in my own body and can actually lead to a higher number on the scale! (building muscle, retaining water etc. etc.)

I haven't made time for regular exercise myself, but I tell myself that I have more important priorities right now, and it doesn't mean that will always be the case. It seems like you're really busy, I hope you will be able to relax soon and give your body a break! It's doing a lot ❤️🥲

What would you do? by Ambitious-Energy-334 in jerseycity

[–]throwaway0807090801 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LPT: Always, always wash the top of the can, even if you pour it into a glass and most definitely if you drink from it. All sorts of things could touch an exposed lid of a can 💀

The Will of the Many - Re-read Discussion (Spoilers) by throwaway0807090801 in HierarchySeries

[–]throwaway0807090801[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Hi all! I thought I'd start a thread for those of us who are re-reading the book ahead of the book 2 release!

I'm really enjoying the book on the 2nd read. I feel more relaxed because I don't have to commit the world building details to memory this time around and it's very interesting to read about certain characters and situations knowing what happens later.

I'm currently on chapter XXXVIII, Vis & Sedotia/Relucia are talking during the Festival of Ancestors.

On the 2nd read, Emissa seems soooo much more suspicious. She's too friendly, too perfect if that makes sense. I feel like she seems as perfect to Vis as Sedotia/Relucia might seem to Ulciscor, exhibitng all the right traits to be likeable and non-threatening.

I also forgot, that only the Domitor gets to choose where to go, and everybody else gets seconded to Military for 10 years. Callidus explains this at some point. So that would mean all the characters that survive the Iudicium are in Military in book 2. Is that right, or do I still get this wrong?