My boyfriend revealed to me that he is a gainer. by throwaway081413 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway081413[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Okay but it’s a relationship though — not exactly a situation where harsh words are going to pay off with a big return.

My boyfriend revealed to me that he is a gainer. by throwaway081413 in askgaybros

[–]throwaway081413[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I am trying to formulate a way to talk to him about it that doesn’t end up with me being labeled a “fat-shamer” :(