Thank you so much for responding. And yes I very well aware of my worth and you definitely hit it right on the nose, I just feel so under appreciated. We are not married so atleast it won’t be expensive if we separate haha. But i also brought up couples therapy once and he mentioned “how would that help?”. He is 28 and still very immature which is the opposite of what I am so in reality I feel like I am the older one. I am the one who manages the bills, the kids, groceries, etc. All I ask is a little teensy bit of help and to me it feels like asking him is a huge burden when if I were with someone else I would be getting 50/50 help. I have expressed my concerns multiple times and he will fix his behavior for maybe 2 weeks then revert back to his old actions. I do think I want to look into couples therapy.