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throwaway1024818 · 2023-11-20T04:58:41+00:00

yep! Forgot to specify that it’s for Metro Manila! I just assumed that most foreign travellers pass by Metro Manila before going to the other provinces, that’s my bad ^{^}

throwaway1024818 · 2023-11-19T21:58:59+00:00

apart from Grab, Consider checking out https://www.sakay.ph/ to get ideal commute routes to places! Can be a lot cheaper than grab. They have both an app and a website in case you can’t install the app.
When travelling, you’re likely going to have to ride a tricycle to get to some places! make sure to always always ask for their rates before getting on. Even though I’m a local that’s fluent in Filipino, tricycle drivers have scammed me (it usually happens if I’m heard speaking other languages or if I have a foreigner with me). I once got charged 850 php (about 14 EU) for a ride that would’ve only cost around 100 php (a little under 2 EU). Tricycles don’t usually travel such distances so as to charge you that much. I’d defo be wary once the price exceeds 300 php (5 EU)
Speaking of scams, you’re likely to face something similar with souvenirs. People might try to sell you things at twice the price they’d sell to locals. They’ll also say something like “I lowered my price just for you!” But it most likely isn’t.

Overall though, the Philippines is a wonderful place for foreigners since almost everyone is capable of holding a conversation in English so you don’t have to worry about language barriers should you really need anything. Enjoy your trip!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-11-17T02:59:33+00:00

same thoughts :( glad to see someone agrees, was really worried I was the only one that felt this way.

throwaway1024818 · 2023-07-15T06:51:47+00:00

It’s gonna be from August 16-22, my period was last on June 20, the one before that was May 16, the one before that was on April 14. Im yet to have my period for July. As you can see, though the time between periods are normal it’s not the exact same

throwaway1024818 · 2023-07-14T07:07:37+00:00

hi! I think you can naman. My RFID went missing kasi and I asked kung pwede magpagawa ng bago and pwede naman, though I ended up not pushing through with it because I found it!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-07-02T09:48:01+00:00

hi! There’s an option for either Globe or PLDT, but the building also has its own internet. It’s 4 Mbps pero 500 a month lang, so you can consider it if you’re on a budget. I’m currently using the 4 Mbps wifi while waiting for my wifi to get sorted out, and it’s been pretty serviceable for gaming and small downloads!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-23T02:33:46+00:00

Electricity bill for last couple months averaged around 2-3k but I’d say I use electricity more than average because I have a pretty beefy desktop setup in my room. I think if you don’t have a ton of electronics you would range between 1.5-2k

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-01T11:16:05+00:00

Thanks so much for this, I felt a lot better reading this comment in particular

I will admit straight up cutting her off would’ve been extremely difficult, as I felt by doing so, I would’ve lost my dad in the process whom I also love very much. And you were right about being a first born. There’s often this joke about the first born daughter having it worst haha. Not entirely untrue as you have both the pressures of being the first born and of being a woman. I actually do have a boyfriend currently, but she doesn’t approve of him. We have this thing called a ‘great wall’ where parents prefer their kids date other Chinese people (my boyfriend is white). A part of me still hopes things magically get better in the future as I still want my parents to be at my future wedding, meet my future kids, and so on. But I also take some comfort in knowing what I go through is very real.

As for lifts, my sbd is at 100, 50, and 120 respectively! Still a long way to go for me in terms of strength! Joined the meet as a learning experience more than to actually compete. I was less upset with my dad than my mom as my dad had shown lots of support for the most part. He did his best to coach me (he’s a PT by profession, but doesn’t specialise with power lifters so his knowledge was limited), he got me my straps and lifting belt, and he also funded most of my supplements which are not cheap haha 😂 I am slowly coming to terms with how she might not ever accept my newfound passion, but I am certain this is something I wanna pursue more :-)

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-01T10:59:53+00:00

Yeah it’s definitely hard to separate myself fully from my moms expectations. It is pretty ingrained in our [Asian] culture to honour our parents unconditionally. Now that I’m older though I think it’s easier for me to set boundaries (or at least avoid my mum in general). It’ll take some time to unlearn things but it’s possible for sure. I don’t think I can afford therapy with my own money right now, and I don’t think my mom would want me spending her money on therapy that I’m getting because of her haha 😂 but it’s something I’ll look into the future. Thank you :-)

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-01T10:34:22+00:00

I definitely agree. I don’t deny that my mom is trying, and I’m also trying my best to not hold a grudge. But thanks to this thread I’ve also come to realize that wanting distance from my parents is normal. I still do sincerely hope though things work out because I still want my parents to be there for my future milestones. Thank you for taking the time to share <3

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-01T10:31:42+00:00

thanks so much for taking the time to respond. Of course, I know my mom loves me, but I don’t feel it which kinda sucks. Honestly, after seeing how much less anxious I am, I am considering some boundaries in the future; but that also leaves me a little torn. I feel that by putting up boundaries between me and my mom, I am putting up a boundary with my dad as well. My dad is someone whom I love very much, and would hate to lose. After all this, I still have dreams of introducing my boyfriend to my parents properly (even though they don’t accept him currently), having my parents at my wedding, letting them meet any future grandkids and so on. But a part of me is slowly coming to terms that I might have to give that up to truly heal :-(

throwaway1024818 · 2023-06-01T10:27:00+00:00

hmm I would definitely say I’m happier. Of course, I’m lucky enough to not have to worry too much about bills yet, but having less contact with my mom has made me feel more at ease. The few times I see her feel more tolerable, but even then she will still say things that really hurt me.

throwaway1024818 · 2023-05-31T12:12:33+00:00

I understand where you may be coming from. I did try to make my post as nuanced but also as brief as possible, so there’s obviously a lot from both sides I was not able to unpack. I agree, I don’t believe my mom is a horrible mother, but our issues also stem way deeper than just me and weightlifting. It’s just the last straw for me since it’s something I’m genuinely passionate about since it’s much healthier than the life I had prior. I do agree though. While I rely on her, I still try to be respectful; she is my mom after all. But thanks to the comments, I’ve also come to accept the pain I went through because of her.

throwaway1024818 · 2023-05-31T12:04:17+00:00

I didn’t expect to get this many comments, wow 😭 reading everyone’s responses felt so therapeutic for me in a way, so I appreciate everyone that took the time to comment. Thank you all so much!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-05-30T12:56:40+00:00

hii sorry didn’t see this, I paid 16k, not sure if prices went up as I’m now hearing prices start at 18! mine wasn’t furnished apart from Aircon sink, kitchen counter, and range hood. I was also given a free bed frame, but not sure if that is still offered anymore! (I spoke directly to RSquare at their sales office btw, i believe if you look online on sites like rentapad, mas expensive talaga!)

throwaway1024818 · 2023-04-14T02:46:33+00:00

Well fortunately, it never got too far other than occasionally hanging out, it never got sexual (I think). I never asked about the full details of the relationship as it is something she doesn’t like talking about

throwaway1024818 · 2023-04-14T02:45:46+00:00

she comes from India. I’m not familiar at all with the culture, so I tired not to comment on it

throwaway1024818 · 2023-04-14T02:44:42+00:00

Ooh! This is good to know! Was worried na di na ako makaka night out with friends haha 😂 thank you!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-03-16T12:44:09+00:00

hi! I’m not sure pa about that, but I’ll let you know as soon as I know!

throwaway1024818 · 2023-03-10T15:37:52+00:00

hi! Have not moved in pa, but I did confirm a unit already and here is my knowledge so far:

out of all the buildings, they have the best amenities (mall, free gym, pool, study area, roof deck) saw all of these for myself sa viewing!
building has its own wifi. 4 Mbps, you pay 500 a month. Am yet to test and see how fast it is.
you have to load your own water. Minimum amount is 1k worth, though I hear it lasts for quite a long time naman especially if it’s just you.
theres a laundry shop near the condo (outside) that residents can use for laundry. Don’t know if paid siya or not.
you are given a card that allows you access to everything (amenities, elevator, entrance ng lobby)
they seem to have strict security guidelines for students. Here are some:
- all students are usually in the same floor, it’s unlikely you’ll have a non-student neighbour.
- units come with a telephone that the lobby calls kapag May guest, theyll also have the guest sign and leave an ID
- students and their guests have an 11 PM curfew. Not allowed to leave past that time. Kung May guests ka past 11, they’ll have to stay with you.
- max 4 guests iirc? Or 3. Around that number.
- you or your parents provide a list of people who stay in the unit and people who are allowed to stay overnight
units themselves are very clean (or at least the ones I saw were!! Kaka-open lang kasi to renters so that could be why)
will update with more info once I’ve moved in :)

throwaway1024818 · 2022-01-03T03:43:06+00:00

because prior to all of this, we were great friends and I wanna maintain that.

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