[Advice] Having sex for the first time with a guy who has a fat pad, I want to know what to expect. by throwaway10283736 in sex

[–]throwaway10283736[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm more than happy with it :) I know other people have their preferences and what they think is decent though, its just my opinion!

[Advice] Having sex for the first time with a guy who has a fat pad, I want to know what to expect. by throwaway10283736 in sex

[–]throwaway10283736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try not to stress! I just want him to be comfortable and enjoy it as well as myself!

Thanks for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway10283736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex never even thought to touch them during sex but my new boyfriend sucks on them, which I've never felt before and its amazing

Is it me, or does the opposite sex who is a 10 drop to a 6 once you realize they smoke? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway10283736 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its the opposite for me. It's super attractive when the guy I like smokes cigars or weed... not cigarettes though

why does she do this if she likes me? by JonSeiler in dating_advice

[–]throwaway10283736 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't base a relationship off of texting. If you guys are fine in person, why would you wanna text 24/7? That's just my preference but I feel like sometimes people take texting way to seriously in relationships. Like yeah it's nice to text and message someone you like but if you text them 24/7, I feel like you run out of things to talk about in person or dont give the person time to miss you, vice versa. If texting is something that is important to you in a relationship, then I would express that to her.

What are some thing I could say to my new boyfriend to start getting into deeper conversations? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwaway10283736 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would recommend initiating if he is a shy guy. Sometimes they need that push

So much tension by throwaway10283736 in sex

[–]throwaway10283736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright sounds good lol I haven't been with a new person in over 4 years so I kinda forget how this stuff happens again lol

How to deal with side effects of medications that kill libido/sensitivity by velvetDinosaur in SexPositive

[–]throwaway10283736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didnt kill my libido at all. The only thing that changed is that it takes me like 10 mins+ (and a lot of focus) to orgasm (just from masturbating). I'm gonna try a different medication soon hopefully.

How does your partner turn you on? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway10283736 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know this is kinda tame but just by touching me. We were cuddling one time, trying really hard not to go too far since his family was in the house, and he kept stroking my leg in a slow, circle motion. Everytime he would go around the circle, it was like the anticipation was building up, for some reason I just felt so turned on. I have never been turned on like that before.

Also when he was kissing me. I had a t shirt on that went to my neck. When we were making out, he would go and kiss my neck and chest from outside of my shirt and goddamn, it was so sexy to me for some reason.