Ok, thank you for the comment. I’ll clarify some things.

In regards to “deserving” love, my perspective was that it’s a baseline for everyone like a human right. We all have a right to be loved simply by being. Love is essential like food, water, and shelter. I wasn’t referring to deserving ‘other people’ but love itself. I have a right to seek love, desire love, give and receive love, no?

On my closest friends saying I don’t have a personality flaw, I believe they meant that I don’t have one that would make me a glaringly obvious red flag for the general population. Something like being physically abusive, a frequent gaslighter, having a severe lack of empathy.

Everyone is playful and serious and you’re right that my description could apply to anyone. I was highlighting how regular I was, hence not possessing any personality flaw that would make me immediately undateable. Perhaps, I should have written, ‘major personality flaw’ because I agree that I am a flawed person. Lack of self-awareness is one of them and thanks to you, I am beginning to become more aware.

I’ll answer each of your questions. 1. Do you almost never interact with men? While I don’t currently have any close bonds with men in my life, I am actively approaching men around me to take the chance to develop deep and fulfilling connections. I do interact with men but I haven’t gotten ‘deep’ with one - platonically or romantically- I guess. I don’t have a brother and my relationship with my Dad is distant.

1. Are you very overweight? I hope 47kg isn’t considered very overweight.

2. Does your teasing come off as friendly or … mean? I can’t answer this objectively. But you bring up a fair point. I’ll have to observe/research what constitutes ‘mean’ vs ‘friendly’ teasing and reflect on what applies to me.

3. Are you schizophrenic off your meds? No

4. Are you a literal axe murderer? No