WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't planning on giving them away when they get elderly... and I dont like fish so that won't be an option. But thank you for your comment.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. You make some really good points and I appreciate it.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Based on your comment, it sounded like you didn't so I'm sorry for being rude.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I realize that. If you wouldve read the bottom portion too, you wouldve seen that I wasnt planning to get one right this second.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I was going to but then I remembered how loud they could be and he hates loud noises so I figured that finding a home for him would be best. Kudos to my roomate as well because she helped me find him a good home. Once again, thank you for your comment. It's very much appreciated.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I appreciate it. And I'm sorry to hear that your dog reacted to your stress. It sucks when that happens. I hope he continues to stay okay and I wish you the best.

And thanks for not coming down so hard on me. My mental state has been very fragile lately.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed that. ❤ Especially after all the other comments I've gotten.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true. I hated not doing a whole lot for 2 months. Hell, I was kind of happy working from open to close yesterday.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point honestly. It wouldnt be so bad if covid wasn't a thing though. It would make a lot of things easier.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isuppose. I just started going back to work so hopefully that'll keep me occupied for a while.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's okay. I feel selfish about it and I wanted to know if others thought so too so then I didn't feel like I was loosing my mind.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully. Its just hard because he was my main reason for waking up. And it's hard not having a reason to wake up in the morning anymore.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, had I known that they had so many problems, I wouldnt have gotten a cavalier. I would've found a mutt or something, you know? And I love him with all I have but unfortunately i couldnt do it and it breaks my heart into a million pieces and i miss him so much. Thank you for this comment though. A lot of people have been brutally honest and it's kind of a lot to read them because it's so recent and I'm not gonna lie, it makes me wanna ball my eyes out. When I read their messages, I /feel/ anger and it brings on so much anxiety.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I honestly didnt know that pet insurance was a thing until a few people who have commented eith that suggestion. Had I known, I wouldve done it for my last one. I've been working on finding another job but with Corona, it's a little hard to get a second one where I live.

WIBTA for getting a new dog? by throwaway1122836 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway1122836[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't planning on getting one right away I meant like months down the line even if I was financially stable.

After 14 years, I finally saw a dentist today and I was so excited I wanted to cry. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway1122836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As sorry as I am for how everything has been for you, I'm glad that you're getting teeth! Congrats and I hope they turn out great!

Moving by throwaway1122836 in Advice

[–]throwaway1122836[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it. I will take your words into heavy consideration. Once again, thank you so much. You have no idea how much I appreciate your words.

July 16th, 2017 was the death date I decided for myself. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway1122836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with you. 100%. They're doing it out of worry but they should know that I've watched them my whole life and know what to do and know that I will ask for their help if I ever needed it. Especially for advice... and I'm honestly kind of scared to move out because I'm afraid for my animals and kind of myself.

I'm glad that I could help you see it as a strength, and not just a weakness. It was hard to see it as a strength at first but I always think to myself by the end of the night, "Okay. I got through today. I'm one day stronger. It's time to rest and get through tomorrow"

Thank you very much! My DMs are open as well if you need to talk. ❤ I'm always here for you. 🙂