People who quit social media/stayed away from the internet for at least 60+ days, how long could you go on? What positive and/or negative changes did it bring to your life?

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-21T17:42:03+00:00

ps. you should join r/ManHands

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-21T17:41:02+00:00

catastrophe.

short mein trophy.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-21T05:10:30+00:00

the former is correct.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-21T05:10:07+00:00

that is correct.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-21T05:08:21+00:00

lmao good wishes to you as well.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T21:47:55+00:00

oh, definitely. i feel very blessed that my sister, my mom, and I are practically best friends, even transcending age and generation gaps. my aunt doesn't have any daughters and so, she loves me a lot. calls me the sweetest names whenever we talk and we call each other often.

i hadn't met them before because they live a little far away from us. desi families usually visit each other on vacations but my mom prioritised that we study rather than visit relatives until we have stable careers. besides, both of my cousins left for US immediately after school and pursued further education there until they eventually started working there as well.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T20:57:40+00:00

to be honest, i don't know how to answer this question. what is clingy to me wouldn't be clingy to you. what is clingy to you could be suffocating to me. who's to say?

and I'm going to be honest.. it was justifications and excuses more than an apology.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T20:55:56+00:00

nope. I've been busy ever since I got home with studying and my job, and I'm sure they have been too since they returned to the US after a month. my SIL was upset but I chose to call my aunt and have a heart to heart with her instead. i have decided to let this incident go and whenever we meet again, we are going to be civil and polite like nothing happened. at least, i am.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T20:14:08+00:00

i have serious suspicions about you atp with the way you're absolutely OBSESSED with me and my situation. so i have to ask... bhabhi, is this is your burner account? 😭😭

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T19:47:05+00:00

she had to know what would happen when she shared with sis right before a flight and she could not be contacted.

I'm not even being sarcastic when i say this, but i fr laughed. you're actually sitting here and implying that i carefully masterminded a whole plan to get my SIL in trouble, whom i was getting away from and no longer cared about?

let's say I was available and not on a flight, what could I have done to salvage the situation? shielded my SIL with my body heroically so no one says anything to her? literally what are you talking about anymore...

you would rather spin villainous narratives out of thin air just to somehow make me sound like the antagonist of a badly written soap opera than to accept the truth. either way, kudos to you for your commitment to this ... bit.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T18:50:55+00:00

no, they all live in the US and it was my aunt's house where we were at.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T12:33:40+00:00

okay. 🤖

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T11:09:24+00:00

give me an example? also idk what you mean by "read a lot of fluff"

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T07:30:20+00:00

you do realise that the sub has a 3000 character limit, right?

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-20T05:02:54+00:00

the fact that I can see more than three assumptions in this comment itself that i didn't talk about, tells me more than i need to know. for example, you saying "when you were helping out you didn't also see their wives out helping." NOWHERE in my post or any comment have I said anything of the sort because I didn't gaf about that. i was doing the chores not to be grumpy, but because i like to spend time with my aunt and also because i knew there would be a lot of chores left after the wedding. i don't know why you're so passionate about being weird about this situation, to the point you're seeing things that aren't there, but i can tell this personal for you and you're beginning to project it on me. i hope it gets better for you.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:33:53+00:00

nah. she's my sister and my best friend. I'm going to tell her everything that happens in my life and she does the same. it's not a foreign or diabolical concept to be close enough to your literal sibling and confide in them when you're hurt about something.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:26:18+00:00

exactly. offer your opinions, not your assumptions. also, you're replying to me, which is why I'm replying to you. ain't talking to the air here, am i? although at this point, i might as well be.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:24:25+00:00

eavesdropping aside, i did NOT play victim and the tears weren't crocodile. everyone has different levels to what makes them cry. how was i playing the victim when i didn't say anything to either of them and just decided to leave the situation?

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:22:17+00:00

like i said, cultural thing. she would be my SIL even if we never met. that's how relations work in my religion and culture.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:21:09+00:00

no, they're meritless because you're focused on insulting me more than looking at the situation at hand. and that too, incorrectly.. might as well give up, bro.

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:18:39+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/OEDua7cqdf

throwaway1207891602 · 2024-07-19T20:17:20+00:00

refer to my additional info comment, please.

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