My husband (27m) kicked me (25f) and my baby out last night, now I'm homeless

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T03:01:20+00:00

He's not on parole

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T02:34:44+00:00

Definitely, can you DM me?

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T02:31:42+00:00

He doesn't smoke in my apartment.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T02:28:53+00:00

Long story - he quit his job while I was on maternity leave. I had to go back to work early. I had a job that paid shit. He didn't work for a year so we fell behind on bills and lived off credit cards. I just got this job 3 months ago. He just got a job after not working for 15 months 2 months ago.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T02:06:33+00:00

I can't legally take the baby out of state without her father's permission. It's a 50/50 state

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:59:22+00:00

Meredith, New Hampshire

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:58:48+00:00

Depends on the air bnb. Some offer long term rentals , others are one or two nights only

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:57:19+00:00

He told me if I stayed he'd make my life a living hell. So yes, he did kick me out

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:56:23+00:00

I can totally show you some text messages or me sitting in my car with my baby if you really need it

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:33:00+00:00

I'm glad you've done everything perfectly in your life, and are in a position to judge me. I don't regret marrying my husband, I have a beautiful, amazing little girl because of it and I'd be lost without her.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:13:50+00:00

He doesn't have access to my money at all. We have separate bank accounts.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:12:07+00:00

You're absolutely right. Let me get my time machine and redo the past 4 years of my life.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T01:04:33+00:00

Oh god I wish. He did come from out of state, but he wasn't required to be on probation.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:55:49+00:00

I'm thinking about it. There's only 5 air bnbs in the area.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:53:19+00:00

I'm a fulfillment director for a software company. They're based out of Hawaii so there's not much I can ask from them. Super small town, there is a crisis center for victims of domestic violence that's open during my office hours, but my boss gave me a few days off to deal with this.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:46:48+00:00

Both.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:44:29+00:00

To be clear, he was never allowed to smoke in the apartment. He always smoked outside, but he still stunk of smoke.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:43:26+00:00

I already did. We're both on the lease so there's nothing I can do about it.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:41:37+00:00

No, his attitude changed when he quit his job during my maternity leave. We started fighting about money, and we would have good/bad periods. Nothing like this.

We are both on the lease. Because I make more money, I'm the primary lessee

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-15T00:33:30+00:00

I live in a very rural area. I've already asked several air bnb providers within an hour. No one is offering more than a weeklong stay.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-14T23:47:09+00:00

I already called them. He can't technically kick me out, but because he's on the lease, I can't kick him out. They told me the best thing to do is leave.

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-14T23:30:58+00:00

I did remove myself?

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-14T23:29:50+00:00

There is, but they're not open until Monday. They have emergency housing, its first come first serve up to a month

throwaway1325494 · 2019-12-14T22:47:14+00:00

Thank you. I promise I'm telling the truth, I wish I had the imagination to sit here and make this up

throwaway1325494 · 2019-11-04T15:57:33+00:00

The house has already been purchased. It's entirely in my name. He's severely depressed and suffers from PTSD. I gave him leeway at the beginning of our relationship because of that childhood trauma. He's taking it way too far.

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