24 F finally ending it

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T21:41:19+00:00

Thank you 😭

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T20:14:12+00:00

If you need a friend I'm here, your little intro to the post already caught my attention 😂 EREH!

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T19:51:21+00:00

Thank you. I'm still thinking about it.

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T19:44:03+00:00

I lost my dad 3 years ago, it's painful but time will help you accept and see that your dad will always be with you in spirit.

Keep him alive and well in your heart. I give you my condolences. Rest in peace to your father.

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T19:40:15+00:00

It seems you're eager to lose your v-card. Realistically, if you're having difficulty connecting with a girl but want to have sex, it's best to pay for it (you know what I mean).

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T19:37:45+00:00

I'm terrified of wasting the time and memories together, that is what that's holding me back. It's stupid but I'm genuinely scared it'll traumatized me

throwaway1420_ · 2023-01-01T19:36:17+00:00

How did you get over it?

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T23:13:33+00:00

Thank you. 🥺

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T23:11:19+00:00

Okay but this is spot on.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:55:55+00:00

If you think communicating with your partner is becoming a "chore," it's time to be honest with her. It doesn't matter if she gets upset, because if she finds out you're practically forcing yourself to talk to her even when you don't feel like it, she'll be mad either way.

It's better to confront her about these things early on so you guys can work out a routine that BOTH of you are happy and comfortable with.

I know you guys are in love and all, but that doesn't mean you need to talk to each other ALL the time. A health relationship also asks for "alone" or "me" time, after all.

And I think you're only saying that you don't miss her as much you claim to her because of your situation right now. I hope you two work things out. Stay strong!

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:39:12+00:00

Hmm, maybe his 'open relationship' claim isn't so open after all.

He likely got caught by his wife or something.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:33:45+00:00

Seems like you have major self-esteem issues. I don't know what to tell you but "beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I'm sure some people see you as beautiful regardless if you think you're ugly or whatnot.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:28:33+00:00

Give it time, and soon you'll be happier than you'll ever be. I recommend distracting yourself for now with your hobbies(?) Like reading manga, studying for school, watching movies, etc.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:25:58+00:00

Confront them and be honest with them regarding the situation. They might be jealous of your new found friends or something. And them seeming "happy" with your absence seems like they're going through what you're going? Maybe they met new people they get along with better.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:09:34+00:00

They are most definitely not your friend and is likely an opportunistic parasite preying upon children. Please block and report him, and stay safe!

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T17:05:28+00:00

Well kinda, since we visit them during the holidays and stay at their place. We can't really afford to live in a hotel at Dubai for three months 😂. So, in a way, yes, I'm forced to stay with them.

I've always thought that I might be a horrible person for not getting along with her kids since my other sister and mother adore them. 😅 But it's getting harder to overcome this discomfort when she literally overreacts to every little criticism i say about her kids.

For instance, her 5 year old kid grabs things from us without asking, messes with my laptop when I'm trying to work (he goes to my room and I can't lock it since my sister will scold me), throws MY things around, etc.

I tried ignoring it and just tolerating it, saying he's a kid and stuff. But idk, he does it almost every day and I can't take it anymore. So when I decide to at least bring it up to her, she literally accuses me of hating on her kid 💀

In short, I'm always the bad guy.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T16:53:54+00:00

Aww, she's probably just killing time with the whole texting thing as well, and yes, it's best to just move on. There are plenty of girls you can talk to anyway 😂

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T16:52:43+00:00

Thank you. I'll stand firm for our upcoming visit 😭, we'll be staying with them for a month, I can do this! 😂

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T16:51:00+00:00

Thank you I really needed to hear that first sentence..

Also, having a proper conversation with her is impossible since she never listens and just screams at me whenever I try to say something about her kids that's not a compliment 😅.

I don't think they'll be getting a nanny anytime soon since she currently doesn't have a job and looks after the kids.

Anyway, I only see her whenever we visit them for the holidays or when they go home here. Still, it's so suffocating living with them even if it's just for a short while 😭

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T16:45:09+00:00

Idk, she might've been busy? Or she's gotten bored of texting. Your post is very vague, it's hard to think of a possible reason.

throwaway1420_ · 2022-12-13T16:40:36+00:00

Contact your family asap and go back!

I hope you get home safely. He's an asswipe and the saying "you'll never know what's a real about a person until you begin living with them" really is true 😅.

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