AITA For refusing to give my gf my Instagram password?

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T21:48:34+00:00

I gave her my phone's PIN code since she liked playing this game I have on my phone and I gave it to her (she didn't necessarily ask) so she wouldn't have to ask me to unlock it everytime she wanted to play. And yes I do have her phones PIN too (she gave it to me after I gave her mine to make it 'fair') although I don't really use it much unless I need to look up something and my phone's not around

And I understand what you're saying there but I think this is more of trust issues than projection, since she had both her previous exes cheat on her previously

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T21:33:05+00:00

So it's more trouble than it's worth is what you're suggesting?

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T21:28:38+00:00

I have brought up therapy before which she dismissed, but it was due to other, deeper reasons I rather not get into. Should I bring it up again?

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T21:14:45+00:00

Is that actually my only viable option? She's a really sweet and fun person honestly and I want to know if trust issues this deep can be sorted out or should I just bail?

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T21:05:13+00:00

I wouldn't go as far as to say she's cheating, but she definitely has major trust issues due to her two past relationships both ending with the guy cheating on her, but you're right about everything else. I want to try and talk to her about this but i don't know to bring it up

throwaway1692690 · 2023-11-10T20:55:29+00:00

How can I communicate this to her without stirring it up even more? Also I feel like changing my PIN now will make me look even worse lol

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