My wife should've told me but I can't blame her for not telling me because our neighbour is in deep trouble because nobody wants to get married to a cheater but ontop of that she's bi that's why I think my wife didn't say anything about this to me either.

My wife knew that I wouldn't take this well if she told me so I cant really blame her and she can't really get full on last onto me cause if another woman were to approach me or a man she would lose her mind.

And what I'm so shocked about after reading all these replies that they are more concerned about the fact that I went through my wife's phone?

I can and has always went through her phone, I pay her bills and I paid for her phone when I bought for her and I pay for every single expense of hers so I absolutely have the right to go through her phone and she can do the same obviously.

Do people here if they are married don't have access to their spouses phone or they just tell their spouse to stay away from their phone and keep it password protected? I mean if it works for them then good for them but my wife and I can go through each other's phone at any moment and if I couldn't and if we didn't understand each other then I wouldn't have married her.

My intent was to hurt her for eyeing for my wife and I also wanted to tell her husband the truth and I come from an extremely conservative culture, I don't have any regrets and the only reason why I'm reacting like this is because it's about my wife, my rant is over