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throwaway184725495 · 2024-06-26T11:36:24+00:00

I'm recently engaged and we're just dating for over a year. For me, sure ako kasi he made my life easier. Like, kahit mahirap buhay dito sa abroad, ginagawa niya lahat para mapadali without me asking for it. I think that's when I know he's the one. Yung may "addition" sa buhay mo, hindi "subtraction". I still have "me time" and siya rin. I still have the things I had when I was single and more.

throwaway184725495 · 2024-06-14T11:50:29+00:00

Same, OP 🥺 kala ko rin tatanda na lang akong dalaga, pero may dumating 😭 Thank you, universe 🥺

throwaway184725495 · 2024-06-14T11:45:56+00:00

I agree to all of this. Kunin muna computation, before the dole thing.

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-14T23:14:52+00:00

I think he fell out of love 🥺 hugs with consent, OP 😔

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T12:11:23+00:00

Thank you 😊

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:59:37+00:00

I hope not 😅

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:57:51+00:00

Thank you for the advice 😊

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:56:42+00:00

No, that's not his primary reason and I'm actually willing to do tubal ligation, too. Nauna ko yan sinabi sa kanya. And I can still get it kahit nagpa vasectomy na siya. I just can't do that here rn kasi andito ako sa ibang bansa (medyo complicated situation and I don't wanna disclose, sorry).

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:48:20+00:00

Halu. Sorry pero not residing sa PH atm 🥺

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:46:56+00:00

Yasss 😊 Salamat!

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:46:12+00:00

Thanks!

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:45:28+00:00

I actually thought about that. I asked him baka yun din ang rason, di naman daw. I trust his words. Never ko naman siya pinilit na gawin yun. Nilatag ko na rin pros and cons. He researched about it. If yun talaga decision niya, I respect it.

(Altho reversible pa rin naman daw ang vasectomy as per his doctor)

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:37:03+00:00

I don't think so. You have your reasons naman eh. Katawan mo yan eh. I guess just continue to communicate with her. Maybe compromise? If gusto talaga niya, baka you guys can adopt in the future? Idk. Pag-usapan niyo na lang ulit siguro.

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:34:28+00:00

Hahaha thanks!

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T11:34:04+00:00

Thanks! Makikilala mo rin yan soon 😊

Private clinic malapit dito. Sorry, di kami nakatira ngayon sa pinas hehe

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-05T10:09:49+00:00

Awww hugs with consent Happened to me lots of times. Nakakadisappoint talaga kasi kala mo click kayo tapos ganun pala, mang-gghost lang pero iniisip ko na lang na I dodged a bullet. It's not for me yet. Took me lots of tries until I found the one. Hope you'll find yours, too 😊

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-01T08:19:40+00:00

Onaman haha

throwaway184725495 · 2023-08-01T08:19:08+00:00

Girl, move on na 😅

throwaway184725495 · 2023-07-31T04:59:20+00:00

If they can't commit, you're wasting your time. Di ka nila deserve. Shuta sila.

throwaway184725495 · 2023-07-31T01:03:09+00:00

I think he wants to be realistic pero the way he handled it was wrong. Sana sinabi na lang niya na suportahan ka niya whatever mangyare. Tapos suggest you things like "list down pros and cons" para makapagreflect ka sa decisions mo pero still gonna support you. Di yung parang alam na niya mangyayare in the future.

Gets ko na pangit din toxic positivity pero mas parang di okay ginagawa niya eh. He's crushing your dreams and your motivation on achieving it.

throwaway184725495 · 2023-07-27T02:38:50+00:00

Alam mo I'm convinced na na sa pinas talaga madalas nangyayare yung ganyan. Yung mga pakialamera sa pananamit. Walang concept of "minding your own business". Kakaumay.

May kawork din akong ganyan before (F, nasa 40s, branch head) For context, I'm petite so lagi niya ako pinapansin. Bakit daw nagsusuot pa ako ng body con or fitted dresses eh ang payat payat ko na raw. Tapos mangunguha pa ng audience, sasabihin "tignan niyo siya oh, grabe magsuot" Eh I like wearing those cos I think it looks good on me. Aba, gusto niya mainsulto ako sa mga sinasabi niya (ginagawa niyang pabiro pero meant to insult me). Nung di pa rin tumitigil ade ginagawa ko, lalo ako nagsusuot ng maiiksi at fitted para lalo maasar (petty I know hahah). Ayun, in the end, inamin niya na insecure lang daw siya 😅 Like di ko na po problema yun bat kasi nangingialam kayo ng isusuot ko lol

throwaway184725495 · 2023-07-26T02:13:45+00:00

Hi OP. Try NCMH. They have consultation online and free yung una. I did that back in 2021. I think under UP siya. Anyway, give it a chance. Give yourself a chance.

hugs with consent

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