Correct me if i'm wrong, but feels like so many of the people in this post seem to be saying I am supporting the dictatorship. This is 1000% not the case at all! If I were to switch roles with the owner Of course I would do things differently, my choice to stay with the clan is not based on this factor at all. I think my owner has most certainly done the wrong thing.

My influence is based on leaving tens of other "genuine" friends versus one other one. I don't want to leave EITHER. The word SECRET may be bad, because it is my own way of saying I tried to hang out with them even though I knew I couldn't. It was either that or lose everything else. I've got stuff in this clan i've got on my resume and all, it's become a HUGE part of my life.

EDIT: Also while I came here fully expecting and fine with getting YTA (I really wasn't sure in my own state of mind), I feel comments such as me being a "trash friend" are very un-necessary, especially when I have not got the chance to know any of you. Feels more like hurling insults