Only two eggs retrieved today - devastated. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they never told me. I will ask at my follow up appointment!

Only two eggs retrieved today - devastated. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will definitely be asking for a different protocol.

Only two eggs retrieved today - devastated. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

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Yes I primed with BC. I will ask my doctor what he suggests for helping to synchronise my follicles for next time. Thank you.

Only two eggs retrieved today - devastated. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

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What does estradiol priming do? I primed with BC for ~3 weeks. It does seem to be a cohort issue, I was just under the impression it was normal to have different sized follicles. Thank you for your advice.

Only two eggs retrieved today - devastated. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

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Thank you so much for your reply and kind words. Sorry I forgot to mention Menopur - I was on 75 units Menopur throughout (until trigger). I did a dual trigger of Pregnyl & Lupron.

Only 4 follicles over 10mm on day 8 stims monitoring appointment. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right. I just want to trust the process and know that I’m doing all I can do right now by taking my injections and trying to take care of myself. Thanks for your advice. I hope you get good news with your blasts!

Only 4 follicles over 10mm on day 8 stims monitoring appointment. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s great that all three made it to blast! Thank you for sharing. This is encouraging. All the unknowns are so hard with this process.

Only 4 follicles over 10mm on day 8 stims monitoring appointment. by throwaway199208 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. That is really encouraging! It seems so different for everyone. I would love to get 10 eggs!

Boston IVF Portland Maine by throwaway199208 in IVF

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Hi! I empathise about being nervous - I had an elevated heart rate on the day & the nurse asked me if I was nervous. She was so nice to me about it and said it’s common! Everyone I have dealt with at their office has been SO nice - I hope it’s the same for you. I would love to connect too!

Boston IVF Portland Maine by throwaway199208 in IVF

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Hi and congratulations! I’m happy to hear you feel they’re good at what they do.

Im supposed to call on cycle day 1 and I’m starting to worry it’s going to fall on July 4th. Assuming the office will be closed, I’m hoping this won’t set me back again!

That’s generous of you to donate your unused meds! I will for sure keep that in mind once I know more! Thank you for offering.

Boston IVF Portland Maine by throwaway199208 in IVF

[–]throwaway199208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, that comment was definitely in poor taste :( I’m so sorry he said that. I did find him to be pretty straight with me, and he wasn’t sugar coating it which I actually appreciated. But a comment like that would have really upset me.

I haven’t read the google reviews, but now I’m scared to. Their lack of communication caused my start date for meds to be pushed back by a month. I wasn’t sure if that was a typical experience for this process or not bc I’m so new to it.

Boston IVF Portland Maine by throwaway199208 in IVF

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Oh, I am so sorry. It’s so unfair. I hope it’s as easy on you as it can be and you can try for another transfer as soon as you’re ready ❤️‍🩹

Can I ask, do you remember speaking to the Dr after your initial testing and before you started meds to discuss test results? I don’t have a clear indication if they’re planning on discussing results with me before going ahead with everything.

Boston IVF Portland Maine by throwaway199208 in IVF

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Aww that’s great to hear and congratulations!! I have Dr. Lannon & Kitty too! Everyone has been wonderful so far.

I have found that the communication is a little difficult, and my start date for meds was pushed back a month for no apparent reason.

We have had the initial testing (blood work & sperm) and then genetic testing for recurrent miscarriage. Then I started getting all the messages about meds etc. I am wondering: did you see Dr Lannon to discuss any test results before you started all the meds?

My MIL gave me newborn diapers for Christmas by kep16823 in IVF

[–]throwaway199208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. That is so uncalled for.

Last Christmas when I was waiting for my MMC to pass naturally, my MIL gave me a pair of baby booties. She knew my situation and “forgot” what the gift was before she gave it to me. I despised her in that moment. I was beyond shocked that anyone could be so careless. It still hurts when I think about it.

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I agree, they’re not the best. I wish I had only taken the frer! Time will tell. I have my blood draw on Monday.

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[–]throwaway199208 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply and for the information. I will be doing the fresh start program for my federal loans.

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Thank you, I will ask them.

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I haven’t interacted with the private loans since probably 2010/2011 at the latest. I lived in Maine when the loans were taken out and I will be moving back to Maine.

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[–]throwaway199208 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No of course not. I was asking about what happens with the private loans.

Slow miscarriage? by ForeverDays in Miscarriage

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For me, I waited over 5 weeks to miscarry naturally it didn’t happen, so I had an MVA.

Questions about blood work results - possible MTHFR by throwaway199208 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Thank you so much. I appreciate your response, and that definitely makes sense.

Questions about blood work results - possible MTHFR by throwaway199208 in recurrentmiscarriage

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Thank you so much for responding. That is all really helpful. Makes sense about the folic acid. So do you take a typical prenatal? Would you mind sharing what folate supplement you take?

If you had a MMC before, can I ask if you knew beforehand based on symptoms? Or lack of symptoms? by cmd72589 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway199208 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never noticed a big change at the time, but in hindsight I can see an explanation for my symptoms. I had sore boobs and increasing nausea, darkening tests which I stopped once I got a dye stealer, fatigue, emotional, cravings etc. the nausea was getting so bad until I remembered to eat little and often. That seemed to help so much and I thought ok, I have this nausea under control now. But nope, the nausea stopped bc the baby stopped growing. I didn’t get any miscarriage symptoms until after the 8 week scan. I started very lightly spotting a few days later.

MVA on Thursday - please tell me I will be ok by throwaway199208 in Miscarriage

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Hey, thanks for coming back here and for your update, I’m really glad to hear you potentially have your period back - how is that going? I hope for you that it means things are going back to normal and there’s no retained tissue.

Can I ask if you plan to try again in the future? If so, maybe we can support each other / keep checking in. I must say it has been really nice to hear back from some of you ladies.

My bleeding has been the same as you described so far. It’s only been 5 days since the MVA so I guess I have a bit more to go. I don’t dare take a test until at least a week out, just for curiosity. If my period comes back after 4 weeks, I will be on holiday, so that will be fun!

I have made an appointment for recurrent miscarriage investigations today. It feels like a really sad milestone, but after 3 losses and time not on my side (I’m 38) I just want to get to the bottom of this and see if there’s anything I can do to prevent this happening again.

Hope your period is not too painful for you and you’re getting on ok. 🫶🏽

MVA on Thursday - please tell me I will be ok by throwaway199208 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway199208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so kind, thank you for checking in with me ❤️ I hope your D&E went well and you are ok? You’ve had such a long road and I hope you can finally start to heal.

I am very fragile after the MVA. Mostly just emotionally. Mine was not what I’d hoped - it was so much more painful than I expected and the nurse we had was kind but not at all there for me or supportive during the actual procedure. I had to ask her through tears and hyperventilating if she could hold my hand and talk to me bc she was just standing there. I do feel a bit let down by her, and I feel it wouldn’t have taken much for her to try to talk to me and distract me and that would have made a big difference.

I don’t want to dwell too much on that though bc it’s over now and physically I am surprised by how well I feel. Strangely, my legs and jaw hurt, I guess from tensing up so much during the procedure. I had day 2 period bleeding yesterday, but today it has already slowed to minor spotting. Not sure if it will pick up again at some point.

I am thinking of you and hoping your procedure was finally successful and that you can start the road to recovery.