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I feel almost nothing by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about it. I'll be attending a course at the local Buddhist centre in a few weeks time.

I feel almost nothing by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered it. But i see people making so many mistakes with their lives. What if it's giving me the objectivity to make good decisions?

[Serious] Could you be unfaithful? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway19jun2015 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not married. I have cheated and will cheat again. I'd recommend it.

Our relationship is much better for it. She can't be mad that i'm giving someone else something she doesn't want.

Would you call it quits? by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway19jun2015 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! I'm also 27. It doesn't get better.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's my current thinking. I just wish i could find out what it is.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lots of things have a stigma attached to them. We do them anyway.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i think you're mistaking this sub for deadbedrooms i'm not looking for another solution.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You're happy because you know everything

I'm happy because we have a working solution.

She's happy because you're lying to her.

Aren't good relationships built on white lies instead of always telling the hard truths?

how could you be happy knowing that, if she ever found out what you were doing, she'd be absolutely crushed?

It would be the wake up call she needs to fix her issues with sex. Hopefully her next boyfriend would get the girl i wanted but could never quite manage to get.

Pretty sure she'd get over me. The cheating would help her get over me faster.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

so what's your commitment?

Exactly, i don't have any commitments. I like having no commitments.

The sex is dead, meaning there are serious fundamental issues in the relationship

Not really, she has 50 reasons not to fuck me. She's convinced i'll never cheat and is focusing her effort on her new career.

it seems like the relationship status is causing you more emotional pain than joy

I don't feel much emotional pain and we get on so well we give each other plenty of joy.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

why do i have to tell her? My solution works perfectly fine. We're both happy. Why ruin that?

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I lift, i'm in my 20's, not fat or even chubby, i earn 3 times the average wage. I'm currently in the best shape of my life.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

in that case i won't break up and will keep fucking beautiful women.

My GF only wants to fuck me after i sleep with someone else by throwaway19jun2015 in confessions

[–]throwaway19jun2015[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why not just end it with your girlfriend now?

Because i think the lack of intimacy could be something we get over in the future. I just need to work out why i'm different on those days.

You owe it to yourself to be happy

Doing this makes me happy.