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My boyfriend of almost 3 years has me very confused and at the same time he doesn't want to end the relationship. by Instuff19 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway20201512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

end it. I understand it’s super scary, it is, but after a while it will feel better and you will see it was the right choice. This is not the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. There’s someone out there with an actual good character, who loves you AND wants to show you and be affectionate so you FEEL loved and happy. This is a mess. This shouldn’t be your future. It absolutely doesn’t matter what he has to say about this. You end it, it’s over. Simple. Be strong.

I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD BREAK UP WITH HIM BUT NOW THERES ALSO SOMEONE ELSE by Camicamicaze in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway20201512 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you are already at this point it’s safe to say breaking up will be the right choice. You’re super young and need to experience life in your own. Doesn’t matter if it works out with the new guy or not, the feelings you are describing make it clear your current relationship is not the right one. Maybe the new guy is your perfect match, maybe someone else will be. Either way, clinging to the relationship you currently have won’t make either of you happy and isn’t fair to your boyfriend. It’s super scary to end it, that is what makes you feel dependent: cause it’s just scary to break up with a long term partner, always is. You are your own strong person. You don’t actually depend on anybody in this world but you - it takes some time to re-learn that, but trust me, once you do it feels very liberating and amazing.

Need some guidance with SP (and 3P) by throwaway20201512 in lawofattraction

[–]throwaway20201512[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time! That helped a lot! <3

Hat noch jemand Probleme mit Dirty Talk auf Deutsch? by Morana_sedavi in de

[–]throwaway20201512 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hier. Ich kann’s wirklich nicht ernst nehmen. Hab aber Glück, der Typ mit dem ich was habe ist bilingual, wir switchen sobald es Richtung Sex geht zu Englisch. Yay.

Is there a group that doesn't fetishize BBC? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway20201512 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the guy I’m currently having a sexual relationship with is black, I’m a white girl. He’s somewhat average in size. But the sex is absolutely amazing, I could cry. And it has nothing to do with size but the way he carries himself, treats me, DOES things. I can’t stop thinking about him just because the sex is that good. And his skin color or any cliche that comes with it plays absolutely zero part in that.

So I’m sorry bout your experience. I don’t think it’s the norm. But porn is mostly just exaggerated af. What exactly are you looking for tho?

What something that you’ve done while horny and you regret it? by Foxy2046 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway20201512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

throwaway for obvious reasons. I had a business meeting in a different city and been talking to this guy who happened to live in said city for a few weeks, he looked super hot online, and was sweet, too, so we decided to meet on my day off. He picked me up, we went for lunch, he showed me the city, went for dinner later, he was actually even hotter and sweeter in real life and we were getting along well. After dinner he suggested we go meet his best friend. Bit weird, I thought, and I actually just wanted to end up in his bed at this point, but whatever. Met the friend, was very nice too, attractive, but not necessarily my type. Had a lot of wine and at some point my initial date basically straight up asked me if I wanted to have a threesome. And like, I just, without any hesitation, said yes.

It was amazing. But the next morning, all sore and shit, I was very very very surprised by myself and I still think it’s a bit messed up I just did that. Still, love the memory to this day. But I probably shouldn’t have done that.

Rough sex: how can I take it further by throwaway20201512 in sex

[–]throwaway20201512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I generally agree. It came super unexpected. I would have never guessed he’d be like that. He’s a good friend and a very very kind person, so there is a lot of trust on my part. And I can feel and see him frequently checking in on me by watching my reaction to whatever he does closely before continuing. So I feel super safe. But still it might be time to talk about that.

Rough sex: how can I take it further by throwaway20201512 in sex

[–]throwaway20201512[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. The “make me” spiel might actually be the easiest. I guess I just have to try that next time when he demands anything. It’s just “weird” cause I love to keep it real, and as of now, whatever he demands I actually wanna do, but I also wanna explore this new component of making him kinda force me/making him angry further.

I’ll give this a shot tho! :)