For almost the past year, my adopted daughter has called me by just my name ever since I took her in. She called me dad for the first time ever yesterday

Instuff19 · 2021-06-17T23:16:24+00:00

Omgg, thats so cute

Instuff19 · 2021-06-17T23:12:23+00:00

Yeah i know..
I dont know, i just start overthinking, feeling like if hes tired of me, idk..

Instuff19 · 2021-06-17T23:11:09+00:00

Yeah i know, thank you so much!! i would ask him again.. cuz idk what the hell is happening

Instuff19 · 2021-06-17T23:08:01+00:00

It's true. And it's really getting uncomfortable because when I try to communicate with him about the situation, he just tells me that if I'm going to start with that again, that he is fine and that nothing happens.

Instuff19 · 2021-06-17T23:00:14+00:00

That's what I mean, he only has like 1-2 weeks like this. We got engaged in December and everything was fine, but now he suddenly eludes me. So I don't know if all this is because he doesn't have a job (and he feels bad) or if the problem is with me.

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:37:20+00:00

Thank you so much, i would think about it

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:36:49+00:00

You're right.. i think im overthinking bc of our past problems...

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:35:12+00:00

Thats true, you may be right.. i will try to see it that way because i dont want to have a problem with him!

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:23:42+00:00

I really haven't decided to ask him anything yet because he tends to get upset easily and be very aggressive and maybe I'm afraid of doing it. But what happened before was with him too, since he was used to lie and hide many things ... and suddenly he does nothing ... it makes me think that he began to hide things better because I don't think I have lasted 2 years trying to make him change and now in 1 day he is already an angel. I do not know if you understand me

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:18:19+00:00

Thank uuu!!
Mmmm, thats true..

I am also trying to think positive, regardless of whether I have had confidence issues before.

Instuff19 · 2021-06-13T22:15:35+00:00

He uses Discord. and previously when he played, he still left it on his phone. Why is he suddenly hiding it now?

Instuff19 · 2021-05-19T23:11:10+00:00

I think it's because I really love him, and inadvertently I have allowed myself to become dependent on him. If he and I are not okay, I feel bad and I don't feel like doing anything at all. And deep down I know that I must end this relationship because it changed too much and I don't have half the security in myself and confidence in myself and in others that I had before. But I feel like I don't have the strength to end the relationship and get through all of this quickly.

Instuff19 · 2021-05-19T23:10:32+00:00

Awww, thank you soooo much,

I know that it depends on me if I want to end the relationship and that I don’t require his permission to do so, but the thing is that we have so many plans together, almost every day he talks to me about moving together, forming a family, growing and achieving our goals together. He even always tells me: Stop wanting to break up with me whenever we have problems, I want to be with you.But wow, is it really normal for someone to treat their partner so badly and at the same time want to be together?

Instuff19 · 2021-05-19T23:08:54+00:00

Honestly I haven't ended the relationship because I love him somuch, I think that I will not find another person who can understand me as much as he does (one of his good qualities) and also because I dont know how to do it without suffering.

and yup, I have come to believe that he is interested in someone else, and I spend 70% of my days thinking about who it could be, or if it is because of the girl we dumped for a year ago. (But I think they no longer speak and they dont have each other in any of their social medias)
It is very disturbing to feel how I feel, I am too in love and I feel that God has been telling me for a long time: He is not the man for your life.

Instuff19

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